I certainly wish I had that answer and I am sure my son's pediatrician does, too.
The poor man and his entire staff, who have known my son since he was a tiny baby, seemed immensely frustrated by this mess. I wasn't even able to be angry at them because they were trying so hard to make things easier on us.
Doctors should always, in my opinon, be heard over the voices of the insurance companies. We are lucky to have a doctor who truly cares for his patients and doesn't simply look at them as a paycheck.
I've recently written letters to our state representatives. I'm not sure what good it will do, but I'm unwilling to just let the issue die. My son is not the only person slipping through the cracks in this large, difficult to navigate, system. Something has to give because people are suffering and it's unacceptable.