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me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months have decide to try for a baby i am ve

  1. profile image44
    Savanna 10posted 7 years ago

    me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months have decide to try for a baby i am very scared that i...

    might not be able to get pregnant . We have alway ed used a condom and we have never tried  before i have just heard many story and read a lot of websites is there really a specific time of the month i can get pregnant ?   Is there really any reason foe me to be scared ? i am 22 and healthy.

  2. magknetts profile image51
    magknettsposted 7 years ago

    babies are gifts from God he only knows when is the right time and he'll surely give it to you at the right time there is no such thing as having a baby by mistake

  3. fucsia profile image59
    fucsiaposted 7 years ago

    You are very young and have much time. Do not worry now, make love with joy. Do not count the fertile days, do not obsess. Relax, enjoy, take a vacation with your boyfriend

  4. slave222 profile image60
    slave222posted 7 years ago

    You should wait a little longer but if you think that you must you should try 3 weeks after your last period. That way there will a lining ready for the hopefully sucessful baby. You will know that you are preagnant because you will miss the next period. Hope this was helpful!!?

  5. MickS profile image71
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Well, if you're only 1 year, and he's only 8 months, I can see why you're both not sure of the whole thing, wait a while longer.

  6. dabeaner profile image55
    dabeanerposted 7 years ago

    You should be scared.  Not because you won't get pregnant, but that you will.  Sounds to me like you and your boyfriend are both idiots, and you will have no way of supporting your spawn -- unless, of course, you are planning to go on the dole (i.e., force the taxpayers to support your "need to breed").

    magknetts -- idiot -- not a gift from "god". Any cat, rat, dog can do it.

  7. umairabid profile image52
    umairabidposted 7 years ago

    I don't think you have any problem actually in my opinion you should be happy. Think girl your boyfriend now want a family with you so you will be with your love forever so why you are scared I think you should also read some articles on the internet which explain how much you feel happiness when you become mother and hold your child in your hands

  8. the_taint profile image57
    the_taintposted 7 years ago

    Having sex with each other outside of marriage lacks commitment and responsibility. It is the behavior of irresponsible, immature people.

  9. renee21 profile image83
    renee21posted 5 years ago

    You two should get married before having a baby.  Having sex before marriage is a sin against God and an abomination to Him.  I hope I'm not too late with this answer since this question was posted 2 years ago.  Please think about it and I hope you'll realize your error before committing this sin.