Can you tell how do you deal with problems that occur in your life?
Do you say :"I found a reason to go back to sleep!". Are you observing a problem as a problem or a challenge? Do you let other people solve your problems even when you have enough time to deal with it and solve it?
I have found a way that has really helped me deal with problems in my life. I look at the positive in the problem. Let me give you a real life example........Some time ago I almost lost my job, I was so looooww and depressed then one day I thought to myself.....Who is suffering in all this??? my friends?NO.....my workmates? NO......Guess who???.......ME! So I decided to ask myself.......WHAT CAN I LEARN FROM ALL THIS IN A POSITIVE WAY?........I discovered....the job has been my comfort zone so I needed to do something alongside this job. I discovered I had other talents which I could use elsewhere to help me earn! So my advice.....Regardless of the problem........look at it from a positive point of view and depression and stress will have no place in your life.
Problems occur in our lives... and it's natural cause we're humans. Every situation becomes a problem when you keep on looking at the negative side of it. Why not think of problems as opportunities? Problems make us strong in the long run, I can attest to that.
I always attack the problem this way:
1. Identify the cause of the problem - in this way, you will know the root or cause of the problem.
2. Analyze. After identifying, try to analyze what are the things you must do in order to minimize the effects or consequences of the problem. Think about the best possible solution.
3. Act appropriately. When plans are already laid, its now the high time to implement the solution.
I have posted an article about this: http://ingeniousnote.blogspot.com/2013/ … enges.html
Hope it helps.
So go ahead and enjoy your day.!
Problems will definitely arise in many ways in your life, now it is up to you how you are looking at it. As human beings, we like to think that we can control everything, isn't it? But this is not true. We need to understand that not all things will go the way we want them to. Learn from what didn't work, so you don't repeat it.
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