Cheri's husband passed away this morning!

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  1. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    For those of you who have read my "Cheri" hub.

    She is my younger sister and she lost her husband early this morning!

    Very sad day today!

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      oh Wendi, condolence to you and your sister, prayers here, Maita

    2. Cagsil profile image81
      Cagsilposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I'm very saddened by the news you bring. Yet, another life gone and people must suffer their loss. Please express my heart-felt condolences to your family and I hope you begin the healing process fairly quick.

      Thank you so much for sharing and I know how painful it can be. Please be with your family and be safe. big_smile

      1. Wendi M profile image79
        Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Thank you Cagsil.

        1. Cagsil profile image81
          Cagsilposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          You're Welcome Wendi. big_smile

    3. profile image0
      lyricsingrayposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Wendi OMG please give her my biggest hug and condolences.  Thank god she has you and the other.

      Let me know if there's anything at all I can do, please, you know I would do anything.  Now Cheri made me cry.

      I love her

      kisses

      1. Wendi M profile image79
        Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        Thank you so much Kim...you just made Cheri smile!

    4. Lita C. Malicdem profile image60
      Lita C. Malicdemposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Wendi, I feel sad about your sister's loss. My daughters and I will pray for her and your whole family. There's time to grieve, there's time to heal.

      I lost my husband to prostate cancer 10 years ago. He was only 48 years old. My 2 daughters and I were devastated, but somehow with prayers from friends, we survived our grief. Your sister will surely come out from her loss in time, with HP friends' condolence and prayers.

    5. AEvans profile image77
      AEvansposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      My heartfelt sympathies are with her and your family. sad

    6. dejajolie profile image54
      dejajolieposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      So sorry my condolences to you and yours

  2. habee profile image92
    habeeposted 8 years ago

    Oh, Wendi, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Please know that your sister and the rest of your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  3. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thank you.

    What a horrible feeling this is!

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image63
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      your sis needs you more than ever

      1. Wendi M profile image79
        Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        I'm with her, so are my kids!

        My other sister and my mom will be here tomorrow.

  4. The Rope profile image55
    The Ropeposted 8 years ago

    Wendi - I am praying for you, your sister and all of your family.  Losing those that we have built our lives around is more difficult than I can possibly describe.  Give yourselves some time, some space and above all understanding to reach out to unlikely sources.  I lost the love of my life on November 20th after 25 wonderful years.  It was sudden and I'm just now starting to get through the shock stage.  Blessings to you and all of those whose lives you touch...

    1. Wendi M profile image79
      Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much!

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image63
      prettydarkhorseposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Oh ROPE< I hope that everyday is a new day for you, hugs and hugs and hugs to you, to you too, Wendi

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      poetlorraineposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      my prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time.  May god give you the strength to cope, and may next year bring all you would wish for yourself....x

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    lynnechandlerposted 8 years ago

    My heart goes out to you and your family at this time.

    Rope: I had no idea, blessings to you as well.

  6. lorlie6 profile image82
    lorlie6posted 8 years ago

    I am so very sorry to hear this, Wendi.  Please give my condolences to Cheri-I know that you and God will look after everyone.

  7. mistyhorizon2003 profile image92
    mistyhorizon2003posted 8 years ago

    I am so sorry to hear this Wendi, please give your Sister my sincere sympathy. I was Widowed when I was only 33, so I kind of know how she must feel.

  8. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thanks everyone...it feels good to be surrounded by people, even if it is only virtual!

    1. The Rope profile image55
      The Ropeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Spirit, my friend, is never virtual.  We're with you!  Hang in there.

  9. The Rope profile image55
    The Ropeposted 8 years ago

    Thanks PDH, Lynne and all the others who have sent their condolances.  Your thoughts and love are coming through the line every day.

  10. Dao Hoa profile image61
    Dao Hoaposted 8 years ago

    My sincere sympathy tp your family and my condolances to your sister for her  loss.

  11. keira7 profile image61
    keira7posted 8 years ago

    All my sincere condolances to your sister, family and you. So sorry for your loss. May God help you.

  12. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thank you Keira!

  13. Beth100 profile image70
    Beth100posted 8 years ago

    Wendi,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sister.  I am deeply saddened by your news, and I cannot imagine the pain that you and her are going through.

    Love is eternal, memories become more precious over time. 

    My condolences to you and Cheri.

    1. Wendi M profile image79
      Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks for you thoughtfulness Beth!

  14. NaomiR profile image88
    NaomiRposted 8 years ago

    I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with your family at this time.

  15. SandyMcCollum profile image78
    SandyMcCollumposted 8 years ago

    Aw, Wendi, I'm so sorry. My prayers and condolences for you and your sister and the kids. Geesh, that's hard to take.

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    Denno66posted 8 years ago

    Wendi, I stopped in my tracks when I saw this Forum name. Please accept my sincerest condolences. Be well.

  17. earnestshub profile image90
    earnestshubposted 8 years ago

    Condolences and love from all my family to you and yours.

  18. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Oh my gosh...thank you so much (all of you!)  I can't even begin to tell you how much your kind words help!

  19. bat115 profile image80
    bat115posted 8 years ago

    "Cheri" was actually one of the first hubs I read upon learning of hubpages. Sorry to hear this sad

  20. adamareangere profile image70
    adamareangereposted 8 years ago

    Wendi, So sorry to hear the news! God bless, and my prayers are with you, your sister and children through this difficult time!

  21. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thank you Bat and Adam.

    It's 3:15AM, and I'm up keeping her company right now.

    She's walking around her house trying to find where his presence is the strongest.

    Trying to convince her that his presence is in her heart...this is so hard to watch when you can't do much to ease the pain.

  22. emievil profile image77
    emievilposted 8 years ago

    So sorry to hear about your loss Wendi. My condolences to your sister, to you and to your family. Hope your sister will find strength during this trying time.

    @The Rope, my condolence and prayers to you. Hope you're doing okay now.

  23. BEAUTYBABE profile image74
    BEAUTYBABEposted 8 years ago

    Hi Wendi this is Pam (Beautybabe)
    I read your very beautiful story about your young sister "Cheri", and I couldn't help but be incredibly touched by the traumatic life she has lived.
    I read with much sadness of the loss of her husband. I would also like to express my sincere condolences to Cheri, yourself and all of your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad and sorrowful time. Please give my sincere sympathies to Cheri, she is lucky she has you to help her through the grieving period as you are a wonderful and devoted sister, who obviously loves her and would do anything to help her.God Bless all of you and help you to get through this difficult time and help your grieving to be as smooth and peaceful as can be love BB

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    poetlorraineposted 8 years ago

    Wendi, so sad to hear of your loss, please take care of yourself, as you will be strong for your sister, but you will need to grieve to.... thinking of you

  25. rmcrayne profile image98
    rmcrayneposted 8 years ago

    What a shock Wendi.  Your family has been through so much this year.  Take care.  My thoughts are with you and your family.

  26. Animalanding profile image57
    Animalandingposted 8 years ago

    My condolences. It's very hard to lose a loved one. When we do it's often hard for us to accept anything. If you find her trying to hold in her feelings please try to talk to her. I know that when it happened to my I shut myself off from the world and it made me very ill. We tend to hold in everything and years later it comes out, at that point it usually causes serious health problems and conflict. My heart goes out to you and yours and many thoughts and prayers.
    Diane

  27. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thank you everyone.

    I finally got her to sleep, hopefully she'll stay that way for a couple of hours.  She's going to need her strength because now she's going to have deal with the bitterness (from one of his daughters in particular) for the fight over the fortune.,,which my sister wants no part of right now.

    She just wants him back!

    1. lorlie6 profile image82
      lorlie6posted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Oh, God, that's disgusting.  And I do get the part about only wanting him back.

      1. Wendi M profile image79
        Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        I agree, there are some horrible people in this world!

  28. chigoiyke profile image60
    chigoiykeposted 8 years ago

    oh wendi really evry sorry. Encourage her and tell her to take heart. Maybe you can bring her over to the forum for her to see her sympathizers

  29. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thank you Chigo.  I've been showing her, periodically, how kind people can be.

    She has spent some time in the Addicts helping other addicts forum in the past.

  30. uliveulearn profile image65
    uliveulearnposted 8 years ago

    My heart goes out to your sister.  She is blessed to be able to  count on you for the love and support she needs.

  31. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Thanks to everybody!

  32. profile image0
    Crazdwriterposted 8 years ago

    Let your sister know that she is in my thoughts and prayers. I am truly sorry for her loss *HUGS* to you, to her, and to everyone in your and his family!

  33. Daniel Carter profile image73
    Daniel Carterposted 8 years ago

    Sending kindest wishes to you, your sister and your families, Wendi. December can be such a tough month. Hopefully family and friends will rally and you can celebrate his life.

  34. Wendi M profile image79
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    I will pass the message along.

    Again, thank you for all of the kindness!

  35. nasus loops profile image70
    nasus loopsposted 8 years ago

    I am really sorry to here the news.  I have only just read your post.  Dealing with your feelings is extremely difficult at the time and unfortunately there are always people who seem to make the grieving process worse.  Talking from experience of losing my father at the age of 12 nearly 19years ago, time does heal, you never fully recover but it becomes easier to live with.  Encourage everyone to talk about the good times you had as a family, it helps the healing process.
    My thoughts go out to you and all your family at this sad time. x

 
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