Guess reading up would of helped? The biggest thing we fail on after the loss of

  1. No More Silent profile image60
    No More Silentposted 2 years ago

    Guess reading up would of helped?
    The biggest thing we fail on after the loss of a baby/child?

    Aftercare - Even the system alonly cknowledges the "words" when faced with you face to face.  The feeling of wtf has just happened  can take years to acknowledge.
    Trust me 10 years tomorrow is my sons Angelversary.  The first year that his life existed and celebrated because you were expected to be "It's 1 of those things". Now I ask DO they care or is it guilt?
    Worse is ut me not wanting to share him.

  2. Kumari Valentine profile image61
    Kumari Valentineposted 2 years ago

    My heart goes out to you. We lost our daughter on her due date and I agree completely that acknowledging our children and celebrating anniversaries is important. Take care smile

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    No More Silentposted 2 years ago

    Hi thank you for being so kind to reply.  I apologise it's just took me to today I think to have the courage to come back on. As, daft as that sounds I don't know what I expected from writing on a blog. I just needed a bit of the world to say I'm still a mum.

 
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