I had three unsuccessful IVF's myself and the fourth one (Thanks God )was a success. Now I have a beautiful boy one year old. I gain prior my pregnancy 52 kilos from the medication I was required to take for the IVF procedure. But this is just one of the side effect that I don't really remember anymore. The boy keeps me very busy and happy.
What left as a strong memories is not the injection I had to take everyday and the inconvenience from hormonal dis-balance but the dreadful feeling of IVF implantation failure.
I was wondering what you feel about IVF and how would you deal with IVF failure? I believe that writing about it may help other woman going trough this process.
difficult to advise but I would glory in your beautiful boy and concentrate on what went right not what went wrong.
Oh yes you are totally right. I am going back only because when I was going trough the process I found tons of information about the actual treatment and so much about -if you fail. I believe that writing more about it may help woman that are going trough this now.
Yup, I would go with caseworker, count your blessings don't dwell on failures.. your difficult period I am sure, has made this baby extra precious and special.. Just throw the bad memories into the trash can!! Don't rake them up!!
Congrats and God bless you and your precious child!!
The first pregnancy is a little anxiety producing for most women I guess, the bodily changes, the mood swings due to hormonal changes, the food preferences, the slightest illnesses, the discomfort and the disturbance in sleep, the nausea ...this was a trying thing for me.. I puked till the 7th month during both my pregnancies..
I guess It may be so for normal pregnancies too.. but the stress level may vary a lot.
I think I am over cautious with my baby and that eventually will effect his independence and from there his personality. I remember even the doctor tell me :"We will go with schedule Cesarean because this baby is very important".
I guess you are right level of stress is different for all of us. And then come the mom's personality. I wish I am more relax with him.
Thanks for the conversation and God Bless.
by milenaamr 7 years ago
About 48,000 IVF babies are born each year only in the United States. I bet that they are many woman facing psychological problems going trough in vitro. After few implantation failures and finally pregnancy does that effect there attachment to the child?
by Ruchira 7 years ago
What would you attempt if you knew you could not fail in it?
by Shil1978 8 years ago
How do you deal with failures personally? What works for you?
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