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The Christmas Show (Without You)

Updated on November 30, 2014
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What is Christmas?

" It is tenderness for the past, courage for the present, hope for the future. It is a fervent wish that every cup may overflow with blessings rich and eternal and that every path may lead to peace." - Agnes M. Pharo

It is ….

"That magic blanket that wraps itself about us, that something so intangible that it is like a fragrance. It may weave a spell of nostalgia. Christmas may be a day of feasting, or of prayer, but always it will be a day of remembrance--a day in which we think of everything we have ever loved." - Augusta E. Rundel

Fresh Christmas tree all lit up and smelling good. ~
Fresh Christmas tree all lit up and smelling good. ~ | Source

Remembering Christmas times

Spent the previous years

When it was jolly and happy

Filled with Christmas glee.


Now there is emptiness and longing

No twinkling eyes and silly giggles

The tradition’s broken-unbound

No merry family gathering at home.


The Christmas tree is unadorned

No family Christmas picture

But the Christmas show must go on

For those who were left behind.


Put up a smiling face, trek out in the cold

Walk the village hand-in-hand

Climb the snowy blue mountain

Hear the bells swinging above the fields of snow.

Gamut of emotions running down the spine

And etched up in the mountain are faces

Of missing family and friends

And those of we used to know.


Those of we cherish and love

And whose sweet scents of love still lingers

The silent laughter that echoes in the air

The bittersweet memories we play in our heads.


In warding off Christmas emptiness

We light the candles back in the house

Where hopeful souls beg to be renewed

In this winter night and wherever we may be.


Love and light to you all,


Candlelight brightens the room, where hope is reborn for peace and goodwill to men. ~
Candlelight brightens the room, where hope is reborn for peace and goodwill to men. ~ | Source

"Darkness broken only by the faint glimmer of the little lamp." ~

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Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year?

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Christmas indeed is the most wonderful time of the year but while we are all having fun and enjoying the season, we cannot ignore the memories of the past with our loved ones who are no longer with us either demised or simply gone to a different direction in life. It can be painful and so to relieve the grief, why not honor them to beat the Christmas blues away. And, may the spirit of Christmas be always in our hearts.

Christmas glitters~
Christmas glitters~ | Source

Here are some suggestions:

1. Talk about them – while it is sometimes painful to bring up memories of our lost loved ones especially at Christmas, it can also be healing to talk about them and remember the memory of the past holidays when they were still living with us. We all have funny stories about Christmas and bringing up these stories will somehow bring the family closer together again.

2. Cook or bake their favorite dish – what better way to remember them but to smell the familiar aroma of their favorite dish or goodies and perhaps make it a tradition to keep the memory of our loved ones alive every season.

3. Watch a movie – by this, I mean a homemade video of our loved ones. We may not be comfortable to do this in the beginning. However, this is certainly a great way to remember them and to feel them dearly during the holiday season. If you don't have any homemade video then perhaps replay one of their favorite films.

4. Make a donation in their names – Christmas is all about gift giving. So, remember the reason for the season. If our loved ones for example passed away from Cancer, we can make a donation towards that particular charitable institution and make it in their names. Better yet, donate the gift of life. Be a blood donor for example to extend other people's lives. It's a great way to be generous and it doesn't cost a penny.

5. Light a Candle – simply light a candle; we may choose to get their favorite scent and let it linger in the air and perhaps say a little prayer to honor them.

Candlelight brightens the room, where hope is reborn for peace and goodwill to men. ~

Christmas Greetings
Christmas Greetings | Source

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© 2012 CrisSp

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