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Do you believe in love at first sight? If you do, why?

  1. wearenotthesame00 profile image60
    wearenotthesame00posted 6 years ago

    Do you believe in love at first sight? If you do, why?

  2. dotty1 profile image65
    dotty1posted 6 years ago

    Absolutely!!! however I do think that this can sometimes be confused with lust at first site.....If you have experienced this and the person in question has been a right li'l monkey but you just cant let them go.....I think its real

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    Emily Sparksposted 6 years ago

    No, I do not.  There can be an attraction at first sight, yes, but love takes time.   You have to grow in love.  Love takes time and effort.  It doesn't just happen the moment you see someone.   Love is not the feeling you get when you see someone for the first time that you like.  That is simply attraction.  Love comes later when two people decide to put each other first above themselves.  Love means sacrifice.  Love=give, while Lust=take.  Evaluate!

  4. hillymillydee profile image59
    hillymillydeeposted 6 years ago

    No I don't, love needs to be develop it takes time. Those first time feelings are not real, it could just physical attraction.

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    Saugasfinestposted 6 years ago

    I think that primarily, the feeling i have initially about a person and how i feel about that person has always been true to the word.

    Other factors like similarities, common interests, etc will be the deciding factor on whether or not you can work as a couple. But "Love" at first sight is definitely possible.

    Even for relationships that didnt work out in the long run, if i initially was madly in love with the person at first site, i've always found that i still hold that same love for them always. My mind may tell me that we're not together for certain reasons beyond our control, but the love is still there.

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    kate-olsonposted 6 years ago

    I believe in a deep attraction at first sight. My husband loved me from the moment he saw me, and I was also drawn to him. This wasn't a physical attraction either, at least on my part.

    I think "love at first sight" can be experienced, but I don't think we should put a lot of stock into it. It doesn't mean that it's "true love".

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    ExoticHippieQueenposted 6 years ago

    I never used to, but when I first saw my husband-to-be when I was in my early 30's, I'm sure that I heard bells ringing in the distance, and fireworks were exploding on the perimeter of my vison.  It was very intense!  Much more than attraction, I knew that this man was going to be important in my life in some way, and I was right...........for 27 years altogether. I felt an instant bond with him so deep that it was as if we had a relationship before, though I do not believe in past lives. Never before, and not again since, have I felt such intensity, passion, and connection. Yes, I believe in love at first sight that can last for a lifetime, because I still love him.

  8. fernando d. profile image60
    fernando d.posted 6 years ago

    No! I belived its just an attraction , more likely you,he or his, is good look pretty,or well build.But most of the time,when you do hang out together. It gets develop into an every last thing bond. LOVE

  9. lburmaster profile image85
    lburmasterposted 6 years ago

    Nope. You can never know a person just from a first glance. It takes about 1 minute to get a good sense if you like the person or not and if you two have a future.

  10. TKs view profile image60
    TKs viewposted 6 years ago

    Just to throw another little wrinkle into the mix, I believe Love is a quality a person has, or does not have and can be difficult to attain based on a persons history.  Oftentimes, Love is a space one enters and withdraws from depending upon what is happening around them. You can be in that place even when alone but it is magnified when you are with another who is in the same space at the same time.  Because Love is not limited to only the physical realms, when a person is in the space of Love, they can see deeper and further.  When you encounter another in the same space, there is an instant attraction from which a ongoing relationship may or may not develop. 
    The trick is to be in the space of Love as often as possible, than you will be drawn to others embodying the same quality.  This does not mean, you will have a intimate, long lasting relationship with every one of them, only that you will relate to them on a higher level and that can occur at first sight.

  11. mahmood1985 profile image57
    mahmood1985posted 6 years ago

    not always.some times may be first sight steal my mind,see this site Bring Back A Lost Love!  http://u.4nw.net/740

  12. Yaduvanshi profile image52
    Yaduvanshiposted 6 years ago

    It is may not be a first sight love but the attraction. It may be physical or sexual in nature. Love takes time to develop and impregnate.

  13. JellyStyle profile image60
    JellyStyleposted 9 months ago

    Of course not! That's just impossible to fall in love with someone u haven't even met or talked. Is it just because of the looks?
    Looks doesn't matter, the character and the personality does.