Who has the final say?

  1. loveofnight profile image80
    loveofnightposted 6 years ago

    Who has the final say?

    Who makes the final decision in your home/relationship, is it you, your mate, both. Or do you prefer to listen to your friends.

  2. JaneKnowsbest profile image80
    JaneKnowsbestposted 6 years ago

    This is a great question. I used to think I had the final say until I ended up separated from my husband. Now I think we mutually listen to each other's opinions and come up with a solution together that works for both. But if we are really in a dead-heat and can't find a compromise, I will usually let him have the final word. I've found from experience that unless your friends have amazing marriages (which they rarely do), then they're probably not the best people to get advice from.

  3. Goody5 profile image66
    Goody5posted 6 years ago

    It's a partnership, and both people need to be equally involved in the outcome.