Do You Have Enemies?. How Do You Win Your Arguments Without Making Enemies?

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  1. ngureco profile image82
    ngurecoposted 9 years ago

    Do You Have Enemies?. How Do You Win Your Arguments Without Making Enemies?

  2. telltale profile image71
    telltaleposted 9 years ago

    Quite sure I have enemies, and as for winning arguments without making enemies, for me, may be quite difficult, since I consider myself competitive, and sometimes may be deemed overzealous in an argument, even though, the win is more through logical answers rather than using headstrong rebuttals.  Anyway, I have learned to accept that you cannot win them all - if you win an argument, you may lose a friend. smile

  3. makingmoney999 profile image55
    makingmoney999posted 9 years ago

    Making enemies means you loose in anyway. Just be silent, and you can win any argument.

  4. Apostle Jack profile image59
    Apostle Jackposted 9 years ago

    It is written:A soft answer turneth away wrath,bur grievous words stir up anger.You must learn to place words in the right slot and control what comes out of your mouth.Don't fight fire with will just get a bigger blaze.

  5. sir_tallest profile image60
    sir_tallestposted 9 years ago

    Everyone has enemies.....even God......but in terms of arguments,if you really want to leave it in peace.....there is a saying we have here;"2 elephant can never pass a narrow gate meant for one at the same's either 1 gives way for the other or they both die trying" my point is if you want to win your agurement, stay headstrong till the other person gives up (hopefully he would) and if he doesn't you'll keep at it you tire....if you want to keep peace, just let it rest but you know whats what

  6. Freeway Flyer profile image87
    Freeway Flyerposted 9 years ago

    Make your case as logically as possible without resorting to personal attacks. Also, you should probably not enter into every conversation with the goal of "winning." Discussions should be about learning something from others involved, not just beating them in a rhetorical struggle. Part of the reason that political discussion is unproductive so often is that people are not open to learning and listening (myself included.)

  7. someonewhoknows profile image71
    someonewhoknowsposted 9 years ago

    Sometimes we are our own worst enemy ! Ignorance is bliss !

    As it says in the bible none are so blind as those who will not see!  In other words we may subconsciously keep ourselves  from seeing the truth because we cannot handle it emotionally.!

    You cannot force anyone to see the truth.

    They have to come to understand it over time,wheather it be a second or an eternity.


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