Sometimes arguments help you to grow and learn from each others mistakes then move on and sometimes it might end a relationship if that relationship is not strong enough to cope with arguments.
It is better to argue about things as long as there is no physical violence. It depends on the couple too if they want to make up or break up. Also it is better to let out what you are thinking rather than keep it inside you where it hurts you more and might even make you ill.
It depends on how much you are arguing. An argument every now and then that gets resolved is normal. However, if you are arguing more than you are having normal conversations, that is a bad sign.
Basically, I look at it this way: when you start to cry more than you laugh when you are with your partner, the relationship is bad.
It really depends on what the arguments are about and their frequency. Personally I'm not a fan of fighting all the time.
Generally speaking if you don't agree or get along most of the time that's a sign that you may have chosen the wrong mate.
If the goal is to "change" someone it usually leads to frustration on our part and resentment on the part of our mate. Very few people are walking around with a hand raised in the air screaming;
"I'm looking for someone to change me!"
Most people want to be loved and appreciated for (they) are.
Couples that get along, share the same values, and want the same things for the relationship tend to be happier and stay together.
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!
Having said that there are some people who love to have debates or banter back and forth. Once again it becomes a matter of finding a mate who enjoys that as well. Very few people want a volatile relationship where an argument/fight can break out at anytime.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships. We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them as (is) or move on.
The choice is up to us!
I like t he part of 'changing' someone ... actually I stopped doing it long ago, when one of my friends asked me .. why do you want to ''Change' him . He has been who he is for so many years and that I should just learn to live with who he is ..
After my first husband left for my best friend, he told me once that they fought a lot as if it were a very good thing. He and I rarely fought. I think he probably felt as if he was "safe" to express himself in that relationship. My second husband and I fight a lot, or let's say disagree a lot. I feel angry a great deal of the time. My husband usually counters with some convoluted logic that he learned as a kid to defend himself. I hate the disagreements and arguing, absolutely hate it! Sometimes we can have a logical, respectful conversation. I have to almost "teach" him that he has a right to express his opinion. Ugh! I've given up on trying to understand relationships. I've given up trying to be a lovely, understanding, patient wife. I'm just too old for that now. I would say that fair fighting, meaning understanding true negotiation and conflict resolution skills is MOST important for each partner as well as having a strong centered ego intact. .
No, not really. Arguments, for me, can make a relationship healthy. But, the two should be able to solve it immediately peacefully.
by ShanteD 5 months ago
Can you really have a relationship with someone you don't trust.You can love them and want your relationship to work but if you don't trust them can it? Do you give it time and hope for the best?
by preyashijha 6 years ago
Which is better in a weak relationship-break up or patch up??
by Dreatech 21 months ago
How long does it takes you to find your true love? What makes it diffrent?How many times do you make mistake; thinking that you 've found your true love, before you finally meet your true lover, and What makes you think that it's diffrent?
by pb3131 7 years ago
Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if they get along every way except in bed?What are the chances of things working out long term, if every other aspect of a relationship is good, but there aren't any fireworks in the bedroom ?
by Naeh816 3 years ago
Time apart does not bring you closer together; despite what fairytales, movies and books tell you but being clingy doesn't help either. Distance cannot fill the void of actually having that person there with you but it can make the heart grow fonder. There's an upside and downside to long distance...
by Phoebe Pike 6 years ago
Should a man be allowed to be in more than one relationship? For example, dating a woman who he intends to marry but sleeping with a man.
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