Hubbers Shocked

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  1. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    The emails I have received in relation to my Hub yesterday "The Day My Uncle Was Murdered" suggest that people are shocked at the deatail, should we tone down the details of our life experiences..............

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      mtsi1098posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I say tell it like it is...

    2. pylos26 profile image72
      pylos26posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Only if you are a "wussy".

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      shazwellynposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      absolutely not my dear Irish friend!  Write it as you see it!!! x (not porn though... hehehe - agains hubpages rules!!!)x

    4. robie2 profile image81
      robie2posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      just noticed this and on my way to read your hub now-- but offhand think that sharing one's personal truth with honesty is more important than worrying about the tender feelings of the easily shockable-- your story might help somebody else with a murdered relative who can relate to you for example.  I suppose I am naive-- but I believe in the power of truth and that we are as sick as our secrets-- so more power to you

    5. AEvans profile image73
      AEvansposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      No it is good to be expressive keep it just the way it

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      MARIAMORTAposted 13 years agoin reply to this


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        PrettyPantherposted 13 years agoin reply to this

        Wow, she posted just 4 minutes ago and her profile is gone already.  That's kind of scary!

        1. Evan G Rogers profile image61
          Evan G Rogersposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          if you click on her profile in the forum posts, it's there.

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            PrettyPantherposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Thanks, that works.

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      zampanoposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I read it.
      Just keep it like that.
      It doesn't any more belong exclusively to you, so to say.

  2. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    mtsi, I would have thought so, but I wonder if people are shocked by graphic detail should it be toned down..

    1. psycheskinner profile image81
      psycheskinnerposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I think it should be clear at the top of a hub if it is going to be graphic.  These sites are accessible to all people, including kids.

  3. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    pylos26, perhaps some people are too sensitive for graphic detail is that possible ?

    1. pylos26 profile image72
      pylos26posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      sorry it i seemed rude was just the fact that watered down versions of details would make your story lacking.

      again...sorry i was rude.

  4. CMHypno profile image83
    CMHypnoposted 13 years ago

    Maybe put a disclaimer at the top that there is going to be graphic details, then people can choose whether to read on or not?  Other people's opinions shouldn't stop you writing the way you want to, how you express yourself is your choice.  But more contentious topics will provoke a stronger response from others.

    1. tantrum profile image61
      tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      A disclaimer would be enough.
      You should write the way you like. I read the hub. Didn't leave a comment as ,no words could describe my feelings.
      It was a very good hub !

  5. pylos26 profile image72
    pylos26posted 13 years ago

    "too sensitive"?...and deny the people issues of current events?

  6. thisisoli profile image73
    thisisoliposted 13 years ago

    Irish, I can whole heartedly tell you to NOT TONE IT DOWN!

    If people are shocked by what they read, well they could ahve stopped reading at any time.  The people who complain about writing such as yours made an actual choice to read it all, and then complain about it.

    Whiners such as this do not deserve teh time of day, you are not forcing the material down their throats. To each email you get regarding this, you should point out that it was their choice to read your article.

    It is people like that, who love to complain and cause trouble, who have stifled human advancement for millenia.

  7. Beth100 profile image72
    Beth100posted 13 years ago

    I have just finished reading your hub and am without the words to leave a comment but not because of shock but because I am greatly humbled by what you experienced. 

    As a writer, one should write honestly, even if that includes certain elements that may shock a reader.  The reader has a choice to continue reading or to stop.  No one can force a reader to finish what he/she has begun.

  8. Dale Mazurek profile image62
    Dale Mazurekposted 13 years ago

    Im actually shocked that you are getting that many emails.

    It is a great hub and very well written.

    The thing is it is an honest portrayal of life and writing it here was great.

    Its a sad fact that these things happen but ignoring them wont make them go away.

    Just ignore the emails and keep writing about anything you want as long as you follow TOS


  9. Flightkeeper profile image66
    Flightkeeperposted 13 years ago

    I think the people who were shocked should have gotten a clue from the title.  They shouldn't expect murder to be pretty and there was nothing gory about the explicitness.  Let them get shocked and be aware that not everything in life is puppies and cupcakes.

  10. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    I wish to apologise to those fellow Hubbers who took time yesterday to reply to this thread, shortly after posting the thread I decided to take time out, so I would like to take this opportunity to thank all who contributed, I am back today after spending a quiet day in the garden yesterday, it was a lovely day here it is Snowing.....last night I watched that DVD the day after tomorrow....great movie...but I woke up this morning thinking I was in the movie....the sun is starting to come out now....but it is cold 11am in Ireland and hello to everyone out there in the Cyber community smile

  11. Sara Tonyn profile image62
    Sara Tonynposted 13 years ago

    I looked at your hub and I didn't think there was anything too graphic in it. It was sad, but didn't include anything very graphic. Not even close.

    I say don't worry about it. I can't imagine what people were emailing about.

  12. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    thanks Sara, I suppose its hard to judge peoples reactions, depends on what they have been through....

  13. blondepoet profile image66
    blondepoetposted 13 years ago

    Irish I wouldn't change a thing.You had to say what you felt to say and honestly it is not too gory. It is a very touching story, I feel for you possum.

  14. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    Thanks Blonde but I though it was best to ask for peoples opinion just in case I was stepping over some un-written line - I am glad people emailed me to voice their concern - I am not criticising them I just wondered If I should tone down...

  15. Evan G Rogers profile image61
    Evan G Rogersposted 13 years ago

    it's not hard to "stop reading"

    so, write what you want as hard as you can!

  16. theirishobserver. profile image61
    theirishobserver.posted 13 years ago

    Children should be out side doing exercise and not sitting at a computer - thats why so many children are over weight

  17. The Smiling Man profile image53
    The Smiling Manposted 13 years ago

    Lots of people live in bubbles. It's nice to pop them every now and then.

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    C.J. Wrightposted 13 years ago

    The truth isn't always pretty but always should be told. I say write on!


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