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The joy of living single!

Updated on October 3, 2012

Other is hell

Jean-Paul Sartre said somewhere, "Hell is other people." And that is true. That must be true because Sartre is not a common man like you and me. Anyway I have decided to live as a single. Why? Because I'm totally agree with Sartre.

How long can you stay with the same person even if he/she is interesting, beautiful, sexy, charming, attractive while there are millions of people living on this planet? And people in general are self centered, selfish, cheating and if not then boring.

Most of the people are lonely, and afraid of being lonely so they cling to others. They can not remain alone for a single moment. They want hundred and one responsibilities to get engage and busy. Marriage is this kind of activity which keeps you busy for your entire life and you don't get chance to meet yourself.

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23 Resons to enjoy being single

  1. I can come home late night, nobody will ask me why I'm late
  2. I can create my life as I wish because there are no unnecessary responsibilities
  3. There is no need to produce a child on this polluted and violent earth
  4. I can travel the whole world, even if I don't come back there will be no problem
  5. I'm not dependent on others for self esteem
  6. It gives a signal to my subconscious mind that I'm emotionally strong and confident
  7. It is a signal I'm interesting enough to live with myself
  8. I love myself, so I don't need to beg for love
  9. There are millions of people around the world so why settle with only one
  10. I can make 100's of friends, I can experiment with speed seduction and hypnosis
  11. Freedom
  12. No responsibilities, no worries
  13. Even if I'm out of money it doesn't bother me much
  14. I can help others, because I've time
  15. I can write hubs and articles even if I don't earn anything
  16. I can chase my REAL DREAM
  17. I can give my whole energy and attention to become a man of my dream
  18. I have lots of time and energy to develop new skills and talents in myself
  19. Instead of paying attention to my whimsical , egoistic, complaining and nagging spouse I can pay attention to myself and improve myself.
  20. There are many interesting things in the world than committed relationships and marriages.
  21. "I'm so strong that nobody can seduce and impress me" this thought please my ego. :)
  22. "I'm over confident, I'm going against the rules of society" this thought also boost my confidence.
  23. I keep high standard, i didn't come yet right partner. Whenever I meet a beautiful, attractive, sexy, intelligent partner I think that I can get even more better than this on. This kind of thinking boost my over confidence to the roof.
  24. I like all women but I don't want to cheat them, cheating is weakness, so I never make any commitment ...oh this thought really gives me great self esteem! I'm not a cheater! I'm have clean self image. I'm Mr. Clean

So the list is never-ending. You can find more reasons. There are many people who lived in many relationships, changed their partners and divorced again and again. Looking at others mistakes I want to learn and I don't want to make the same mistakes!

Update:

  1. But still if you want to get married then visit my hub Relationships and meditation to create happy, healthy and peaceful relationships.
  2. You can find even more interesting post on this topic here: Marriage or no marriage

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    • dafreesan profile imageAUTHOR

      dafreesan 

      5 years ago from India

      Thank you Jose for your comment :)

      Just subscribed you!

    • jose7polanco profile image

      Jose Misael Polanco 

      5 years ago from Los Angeles

      #15 made me suscribe to you. I find my self in the same situation.

      You are right one can succes oneself because of no unnecessary responsibility. Life is fullest when one has no commitment.

    • SUSANJK profile image

      SUSANJK 

      7 years ago from Florida

      I couldn't agree more. I have been divorced for 20 years and have never even wanted to date since. Absolutely never marry again, like my independence.

    • dafreesan profile imageAUTHOR

      dafreesan 

      7 years ago from India

      @ Marie Brannon & Honorablewoman: I write another hub "Relationships and meditation" https://hubpages.com/relationships/Relationships-a... after receiving your comments. It is about how to create happy and peaceful relationships :)

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      Marie Brannon 

      7 years ago

      The words that came to me while reading this were "self-centered, self-absorbed, selfish, hedonistic, immature, and childish".

      Most of us outgrow this mind-set. Just sayin'

    • dafreesan profile imageAUTHOR

      dafreesan 

      7 years ago from India

      ThnQ Honorablewoman :) There r very few loving n kind people walking on this earth like u! i think u r an exception.

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      Honorablewoman 

      7 years ago from Georgia

      I don't believe this hub for a second, something else is going on here. It is ok to walk alone and be happy if you must, but there is nothing greater than the love god intended for us to share between each other. Love you with the love of Jesus

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