Guys I appreciate all your answers, thanks first for stopping by.
Rock the mom's club with extra interest yes, tlmc if you were in new york I would meet you, teyeger, I think about going to college for an extra diploma, that would be a good one...and athena yes, your idea of volunteering was already on my mind and I look into meeting people at the library, the hospital or an elderly center.
I am on the right line now. Thanks guys! Love and peace to all.