No! Marriage is a permanent working relationship. You both have to give a little to maintain a happy marriage. As the marriage grows older, the individuals may find that their wants, needs, desires, and goals can change. So, you should discuss what your needs (for now and into the future) are with each other to try to find ways the individuals of the marriage can have some of their needs fulfilled. Actually, this should have been done in the pre-marriage phase so that you both would have an understanding of what you are getting into. I think that getting married for love is a prerequisite for marriage, but understanding what you each want and expect out of the rest of your lives together is just as important.