Everyone is entitled to have their own boundaries or "deal breakers".
For me cheating, constant fighting, alcohol/drug addiction, criminal acts, physical abuse, emotional and physical neglect, or the realization we no longer share the same values/want the same things.
There is no amount of communication or work that can overcome being with someone who does not want what you want.
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys.
Human beings make mistakes! This includes choosing the wrong mate for oneself! A divorce when it's all said and done is a public admission that a mistake was made in the mate selection process.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them as (is) or move on.
They don't give out "whoopee cookies" for staying in toxic marriages.
“Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go.” — unknown