Why can't I get to into love?

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   Kriz Toledoposted 7 years ago

   Why can't I get to into love?
   
   I'm a single mom, I can't get into dating. And once I'm into one, I usually, end it up or simply get hurt from it

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   Bella Samesposted 7 years ago

   Define love. Whatever your answer is, ask them if they feel the same way about that definition of love; and extensively about your relationship with them. It all depends what you seek in the relationship as well. There is a difference between love and lust, love and security, love and dependence, love and attatchement and love and manipulation. When sometimes it might be confused for one rather than being the other.
   
   Try to ask yourself if you are simply getting together with someone for the sake of dating, or for the sake of finding your significant other. Someone who shares your interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes.

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   dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

   
   
   Don't feel obligated to do anything you don't want to do.
   Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
   If someone is having one bad dating experience after another it's probably time they reexamined their "mate selection criteria".
   If you go to the store to purchase an apple but buy an onion instead whose fault is that?
   Do you curse the onion for not being an apple? NO!
   You learn to become a "better shopper"!
   Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.
   Too often people pursue relationships without having taken the time to figure out who (they) are let alone what they want and need in a mate. They allow "impulsive connections" and "happenstance to dictate their relationship choices.
   That's the equivalent of going shopping without a list!
   The only thing all of your bad relationships have in common is (you).
   If you want something different (you) have to do something different.

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