Has She Left me?

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  1. questionier profile image47
    questionierposted 9 years ago

    Has She Left me?

    I have been goin with a sweet love for  a yr. And suddenly our relationship turn sour.I have tried to bring her back but she is not respoding. NO CALLs, no kia from her,no greetings unless i great her.I am yet to come to conlusion that she has left me. I bought a gift to and she returned it.
    Does it means it over with us. What do I do. I still love her. But iam in pain but she does not kia and want to know about it.

    what do i do. please please

  2. profile image47
    tinkerbell09posted 9 years ago

    Coming from a female, if she is not even responding to gifts, its safe to assume that it is over.  The best thing to do is let her go her way, and you go yours.  If she wants you back, make her come to you since you have already exhausted all your ideas to get her back.  Losing love is never easy, but if she really loved you as much as you loved her, she'll come back.

    With that said, its up to you if you want to wait for her to come back, but it'll be painfull for you to wait day after day to see if she'll call, come see you, or say hi when she passes you on the street somewhere.  And not to down her, but why waste time missing someone who doesn't care about how you feel?  The least she could have done was tell you what was on her mind for why she wanted to leave you instead of just leaving you wondering.  I think you'd be better off, but that's just my opinion.  Hope things work out for you.

  3. Lady_E profile image63
    Lady_Eposted 9 years ago

    They say "action speaks louder than voice".  What are her actions telling you?

    The right lady who will love, respect and care for you will come your way some day. Until then, stay strong. smile

    (if you are meant to be together, she will come back.)

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    theonlytriniposted 9 years ago

    Sorry to say, i think its over.
    If you didnt have a formal break up, it seems she maybe mad at you for some reason cause she returned the gift. Or maybe she jus wants to break all ties with you. That maybe the case, but it takes awhile to get over a break up and the pain you are feelin will pass but u will always love her somewhere in your heart.

  5. Michellcat profile image60
    Michellcatposted 8 years ago

    It sounds like she has left you, and doesn't want to talk about her reasons, whatever they were.

    You've done all anyone could. You tried to talk, you sent a gift, you kept the lines of communication open in case she wanted to talk. Now it's time to let go, so that the right person can come into your life.

    Good luck.

  6. livenlearn87 profile image81
    livenlearn87posted 8 years ago

    The question isn't is it over.  The question is, do you really want someone that is doing everything in their power to let you know they do not want to be with you.  You deserve better than that! Be strong, and hold out for someone that is right for you.


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