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Guys, what did you do to get your ex-girlfriend back?

  1. stricktlydating profile image81
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    Guys, what did you do to get your ex-girlfriend back?

    When she broke it off with you, how did you get the relationship back on track? How did you win her over again?

  2. toby26 profile image37
    toby26posted 8 years ago

    probably, one way is to find out why she does not like me anymore. This way I work out how to win her back. But in most case, just forget it man. there's so many hot ladies out there.

  3. Ty B profile image61
    Ty Bposted 8 years ago

    I got over her and moved on. When she could have me she didn't want me, only when she couldn't have me any more did she want me back, but I didn't go. If I had she probubly wouldn't want me anymore, some Woman can be strange in that way and I am better off without them.

  4. profile image0
    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    why would you go backwards, especially when you loved and was loyal to someone that didnt appreciate or respect you for all that you were offering.  I wouldn't want that person back---for what so that I can experience the madness all over again. Sad fustrated,miserable and I don't get along, I love to be happy!

    Vonda G. Nelson

  5. wsp2469 profile image59
    wsp2469posted 8 years ago

    WHY would I want to get an "ex"-girlfriend back?
    I can only think of one time that I went back to a woman who broke it off with me and that's because SHE apologized and asked me to see her again complete with text messages chock full of self-deprecating humor. 
    How could I say no to her?

  6. dorjek profile image52
    dorjekposted 8 years ago

    meet him and talk with him spend time with him not in a relationship of ur past but as a good friend shareing everything mostly emotinal stuff though you are happy or good if he ask you how are you just reply having bad days ..n stuffs
    but don't visit him regularly .. at first meet him throughly then later on just meet him once or 2ice a week then slowly put some attraction on those time n slowly start to move aways this wil definately bring him back to you..

    one thing always when you meet just give him a chocolate or n e thing he like .. this way when you don't meet him even though he don't won't to be with you but the chocolate will remind him of you ...

    Try it will definately work if not then let me know his reaction ... depending on his reaction will let you know other metheods ...

  7. John B Badd profile image59
    John B Baddposted 7 years ago

    I was going to say i blew up her car but then i read the additional details and realized thier was more to the question:D
    jk tongue

  8. kmartel profile image36
    kmartelposted 7 years ago

    I'm not a guy, but I had to answer this question!! When I broke it off, it was because I had no intention of getting back with him no matter what he came up with. Finished is finished, period.

  9. MickS profile image71
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    I've never bothered, there are plenty more out there, and anyway, if they want to get back together, they can chase, of course, it may be too late, but I've never wanted an ex back anyway.

  10. tobkum profile image56
    tobkumposted 7 years ago

    Well, there is a reason why it says EX- girlfriend. I normally don't see a reason to get an ex back. There are many possible causes that lead to the breakup, but seemingly they were too much of a problem to keep the relationship going. Fighting just for the sake of it isn't my thing. Be realistic. But that also means that if the breakup happens for no apparent reasons - FIGHT! wink

  11. winbackher profile image56
    winbackherposted 7 years ago

    Hi striclydating,

    My advice is DON'T GET HER BACK!

    The reason why am saying this because when you're trying so hard in getting her back you'll start doing silly mistakes that leads she run away from you forever.

    Instead of trying to get her back you have to get yourself back! Because why?  when breakup happens men usually got blanked and don't know where to go what  to do. he felt hurts and desperately want to get his ex girlfriend quickly if he really love his ex girlfriend. That's normal. Men will start begging, apologizing,  change for good, over promising, threatening and the WORSE he's keep himself in the room and doing nothing.

    so, im giving some tips to get ex girlfriend back...3 simple steps you may follow and might help you to get her back...

    1- STOP!
    All of the drama and mixed emotions can make it difficult to think clearly.

    2- No Her...for now.

    Most people think the best way to win her back is to keep calling them and saying you miss them, love them, etc. The fact is that chasing your ex right after a break up is only more likely to turn them away. Furthermore, your emotions are too unstable during this time, which will make it hard to present yourself in calm and confident manner. So don’t give into the temptation to contact her. Give her some space and move onto the third step.

    3-  Plan Your Strategy And Stick With It!

    This is the most important step in winning her back. Too many people are over-confident in their abilities to win back ex love. They randomly call their ex, send flowers, and even show up at their doorstep. The problem with this strategy is that when it comes time to talk they have nothing to say except “I’m Sorry” or “I Love You”. These words may be true, but it will not be enough to get their ex back. You need to build a strong attraction from them and prove that things will be different in the future. This is not something that can be done overnight as it requires creativity and thoughtful planning.

    Hope it Helps.

    Warmest Regards
    Maleeqa Abdul
    p/s my profile : http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Maleeqa_Abdul

  12. Rose Bener profile image54
    Rose Benerposted 4 years ago

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