Isn't having friendships outside of your relationship a good balance in life or

  1. ADDICTED2FIERCE profile image55
    ADDICTED2FIERCEposted 8 years ago

    Isn't having friendships outside of your relationship a good balance in life or is it wrong?

    Some people think its a crime to have a few trustful and loyal friendship outside their relationship. I say if you trust me you have nothing to worry about, and if you don't trust me then why are you still here? Trust is hard to keep and once you mess it up, its hard to gain back. So why lose someone's trust to begin with. Hope i'm making sense.

  2. Dark knight rides profile image72
    Dark knight ridesposted 8 years ago

    It's not wrong to have friends outside of your relationship, as long as its just friends. But why not include her in things sometimes. Let her see what kind of things you and your friends do, maybe she'll be a good fit and maybe not, but it'll make her feel like she's not being excluded from an important part of your life. Let her know though that there are limits, that there are times when you just need some time away, to hang out with someone else. Everyone needs that, to have their own interests that they can share, but without the other person being right there.

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    are you looking for someone to justify whatever you are doing outside of you "exclusive" relationship?  Because we all know that friendships outside of a relationship is fine once they dont cross the respect line.  You wouldnt go that far to ask the one "you love" why you still here if you feel I am up to something!  Guilty!!!

 
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