If you caught your spouse cheating again, would you give them a third chance?

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  1. Kotti KaDotti profile image60
    Kotti KaDottiposted 9 years ago

    If you caught your spouse cheating again, would you give them a third chance?

  2. stricktlydating profile image82
    stricktlydatingposted 9 years ago

    Absolutely not.  You've 'caught' them three time out of how many times?  Once may have been a 'mistake', which they could have learned from.  Second time, they knew not to do it.  If you don't leave you have to accept that the other person is going to continue to cheat you - Unless you're planning to both have some kind of 'open' relationship,  you will end up feeling very embarrassed and undignified if you stay with your partner.

  3. rosey2k9 profile image58
    rosey2k9posted 9 years ago

    Most definately not because there would be no trust in the relationship and you would not be happy in the relationship. Without trust what would your relationship have? Imagine giving your cheating spouse a third chance, that would be like laying down and letting your spouse trample all over you. If somebody in a relationship cheats then they are not totally commited to you or the relationship and you should get out sooner rather than later, move on and get happiness from somebody who won't cheat on you or betray you in anyway.

  4. ryltony profile image52
    ryltonyposted 9 years ago

    Nope.  If they were lucky enough to get a second chance, they'd definitely be history if they cheated again.  That's a big if because I generally have a no tolerance rule.

  5. Harmax123 profile image61
    Harmax123posted 9 years ago

    I wouldn't even give them a second chance, if they truly loved me they wouldn't do it even once.

  6. Dark knight rides profile image71
    Dark knight ridesposted 9 years ago

    There wouldn't be a third chance. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice and I'm gone. Some say forgive and forget, and I'm all for forgiving. But if someone is going to cheat once, the chances are they will cheat again. And again. If it upsets you, then forgive, and walk away.

  7. darkprincess profile image60
    darkprincessposted 9 years ago

    not a chance in this world..........even after the first time i wouldnt go back for the 2nd or third time...........

  8. Betty Reid profile image61
    Betty Reidposted 9 years ago

    No.  I'd probably leave after the first time.


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