What your boyfriend says for words are useless, let his love be defined by his actions. If he brings you flowers, out of the blue or surprises you by making dinner or taking you out for dinner.
Pay attention to his body language, facial expression and how he reacts to specific circumstances or situations as the come up.
If he seems more interested in the physical than the emotional, chances are he is "lust" with not in love. If he can confide in you, shows concerns for your emotional well-being, and is interested in intellectually stimulating conversations, he either loves you, or is at least getting there. If he brings up the future, and you are included in his plans, this is a great sign. His body language is another good indication, if his pupils are dialated, he makes a lot of eye contact, and touches you affectionately (not sexually), this is a sure sign of love.
There is no science to Love........it truly is what it is! I just read a response regarding what should be done regarding loving your boyfriend, I believe these are steps that "should" be taken----Rubbish!!! FYI: If you feel the need to play any type of game whether mental or physical in the name of love, then one of the parties if not both are not mature enough to Love or be Loved.
Hun if you want to know if your boyfriend Loves you, you would already know and you wouldn't have to take any advice from none of us!
Vonda G. Nelson
by sensual 4 years ago
my boyfriend say he cares for me, is this the same as he loves me?
by whispers of faith 8 years ago
how do you know a man really loves you?if he really loved me will he decide to leave me after he hears something stupid that i did? like contact his ex girlfriend.
by Caroline Marie 6 years ago
And that's it's not just lust and infatuation.
by sroberts9 3 years ago
Who do you love and who really loves you? and how do you know?
by faria_lupin 7 years ago
how can we understand that he is my real love or true love...he really loves me?
by s_little 3 years ago
How can you tell if a person really loves you if theyre not the type to express there feelings?My guy isnt too fond of sharing how he feels all I know is how I feel about him and I think he loves me but sometimes I cant tell.
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