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How do you find out if your boyfriend really loves you?

  1. knlub2 profile image59
    knlub2posted 8 years ago

    How do you find out if your boyfriend really loves you?

  2. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 8 years ago

    What your boyfriend says for words are useless, let his love be defined by his actions. If he brings you flowers, out of the blue or surprises you by making dinner or taking you out for dinner.

    Pay attention to his body language, facial expression and how he reacts to specific circumstances or situations as the come up.

  3. topgunjager profile image61
    topgunjagerposted 8 years ago

    He loves you if he avoids things that will hurt you=)

  4. TangoDancer profile image72
    TangoDancerposted 8 years ago

    If he seems more interested in the physical than the emotional, chances are he is "lust" with not in love. If he can confide in you, shows concerns for your emotional well-being, and is interested in intellectually stimulating conversations, he either loves you, or is at least getting there. If he brings up the future, and you are included in his plans, this is a great sign. His body language is another good indication, if his pupils are dialated, he makes a lot of eye contact, and touches you affectionately (not sexually), this is a sure sign of love.

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    There is no science to Love........it truly is what it is!  I just read a response regarding what should be done regarding loving your boyfriend, I believe these are steps that "should" be taken----Rubbish!!!   FYI:  If you feel the need to play any type of game whether mental or physical in the name of love, then one of the parties if not both are not mature enough to Love or be Loved.   

    Hun if you want to know if your boyfriend Loves you, you would already know and you wouldn't have to take any advice from none of us!

    Vonda G.  Nelson