Have you even made major changes to yourself to keep your spouse from cheating?
How far would you go (change something about your appearance, act differently, more or less sex, avoid unnecessary conversation) to keep him or her from straying?
I wouldn't change squat. If what I have to offer isn't good enough, then it's better to part ways. You can only "act" for so long before you become who you are. In the end, your personality and your physique are exactly what make you who you are. If you have to change them to keep someone around, you're doing both of you a disservice. Just my 2 cents
I would never change anything about myself for someone else. I might change something for myself because I want to make the change.
If you make drastic changes in yourself, then that person is not in love with you - they are in love with the person you are pretending to be. The front you would be putting on could only be maintained for a limited amount of time and when you could no longer maintain that front, he would stray anyway (if he is so inclined).
Be yourself - it works out better for everyone in the long run, especially you.
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