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It feels as if there are restrictions to see him. He tells me when I can come ov

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    lela333posted 8 years ago

    It feels as if there are restrictions to see him. He tells me when I can come over and not to...

    come over.  when I want to stay and he is leaving to go some where he doesnt want me there, he thinks I am going to snoop. or if I am low on gas  and want to  stay at his house he says no, Im not responsible for you not having enough gas in your car. He acts like life revolves around him. He wont answer my text messages when I ask him if he has cheated on me. I found a photo of some girl on his  his computer. He says that its been on there for 2 years.. and here he just got over a relationship with some girl he has been with for a year. He is always blaming me for his faults. Are these cheatin

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    reeltaulkposted 8 years ago

    he has loser written all over him...keep putting up with his shit and you will to

  3. pncblessed profile image60
    pncblessedposted 8 years ago

    You are worth more than that... it seems to me he's got someone else

  4. Tirzah Laughs profile image81
    Tirzah Laughsposted 7 years ago

    Why do you bother? 

    He's obviously  doesn't really care about you.

    Either your overly insecure or he's not that in to you.  It will never work either way.

    Start over with someone else.

  5. JayDee Sterling profile image60
    JayDee Sterlingposted 7 years ago

    You must learn to recognize an "energy vampire" when you encounter one.  You don't go through this kind of thing with anybody. 

    If this guy can't "show up" to answer a text, what do you think he would do in a real situation.  Don't ask anybody point blank if they cheated, they will always say no, or they will give you some lame excuse like 'that girl's picture has been on my computer for 2 yrs' Really? So, if it is such a non-issue, then why is the picture still there? 

    It isn't that he fears you will snoop, there is someone else in the picture and he doesn't want either of you to run into one another.  When you think of this guy, think "NEXT", find another guy, or at least get rid of that one so a new guy can find you.

  6. Seeker7 profile image96
    Seeker7posted 6 years ago


    Honey do yourself a favour and get a real man. Not some ego on legs! He's obviously an absoulute plonker and not worth your time or energy. There are loads of really nice guys out there who will treat you with respect - go look for them and leave Mr Ego where he belongs - in the gutter.

  7. Man from Modesto profile image83
    Man from Modestoposted 6 years ago

    Purity is a very important, priceless possession each of us starts out with. It can be regained.

    Ignore the paths of the world: college is for experimenting sexually, prom night is time to lose your virginity, sleep around until you find someone you love... those are all Hellywood lies.

    Instead, live a right life. Be yourself. Get close to God. A good person deserves another good person to love and hold and cherish and honor. If you don't value yourself, and give yourself away to disrespectful, selfish men, what kind of man do you think you will find?

    Instead, learn to see yourself as God sees you: a priceless, unique, beautiful treasure, a treasure!

    When you have found personal peace, and see that you are worthy of love, and are worthy of a good husband, God will put you two together.

    Stop sleeping around, worshiping bodies and sex. Worship the one whose love never fades.