Friend raped by her husband dad. It's a silent issue she's hesitating to tell? Why? suggestions?
One day Liz came home her husband dad was visiting from New York. Husband had not made it home. Liz was not expecting company. The dad approached her in a inappropiate manner. Liz stated the situation.He started sexually abusing Liz. Liz Threatened to tell , Dad said being such the little freak she was. Son would never believe her. The dad and son are very close. Liz is scared if she told it would ruining her marraige. The dad is still present and active in there life. Dad is still making provocative remarks toward her and comments about the rape.
Dad is a predator. If she does not do something it will not stop! Liz needs to decide if she is willing to put her own safety, health and sanity above her husbands feelings about his Dad.
If she thinks she is doing hubby a favor by allowing him to believe all is well she is not. How will hubby feel when he comes home to a dead or seriously hurt wife only to find out that his dad was the perpetrator, or how will he feel when she eventually gets feed up and files for a divorce because I promise one of these 2 things will happen.
No she needs to for everyones benefit speak up before it gets so bad that she can't
she should tell her husband and warn him that she has some disturbing news that is about his father, and ask him if he wants to hear it?
As honest and simple as that sounds Liz is actually afraid. Liz wants here husband and is willing to allow this heart ache its almost as if dad perdicted this. Dad had to have analyzed this situation. He found a good target and then threatened her. I suggested that she tell also. Liz is so in a shock it's almost as if she needs to see phycological help. Some type of way Liz needs to be convinced that telling is the appropiate approach.
If the son really loves her he will believe her. Then again you say father and son are really close, maybe they decided to share. Why else would he disrespect his son like that.
If she can't tell her own husband there's already something wrong with the marriage.
Liz is the wife and dad is the husband. dad had sex with her. what question of rape in this case? Can a husband be prohebited to make sex with his wife ?
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