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I love my boyfriend a lot even he does more than me , he likes to chat everythin

  1. ramyaprithvi profile image50
    ramyaprithviposted 8 years ago

    I love my boyfriend a lot even he does more than me , he likes to chat everything as you know...

    what will lovers feel , even i likes to chat but i cant speak about sex matters ,it makes him little hurt about that , we are living far from each other , we chat in phone always , so as we are far we can talk about sex ,it makes him feel good , but i dont want to talk about that ,  am feeling something that all girls feel when we talk about that means shyness , that makes my boyfriend feel bad , i dont know why am like that , i want to be like what my boyfriend desires , what should i do how should i change , please answer me.....

  2. pisean282311 profile image59
    pisean282311posted 8 years ago

    talking about sex is one of things which girls are not very comfortable with especially Indian girls..from your name i assume you are Indian.

    First of all you need to understand that sex is not something which is bad or anything , sex is what makes humans born and without it we would not have existed...

    coming to giving up your shyness...it is not like today you decide and you would start talking about sex right away..its conditioning of brain which makes us what we are...

    you said your boyfriend loves you...so make him explain that you are not mentally ready to talk about sex , rightnow and slowly you would get ready to talk about it...if your boyfriend loves you he would respect this...

    also of course its your life but i dont agree with becoming what your boyfriend desires because i believe that every one has unique personality and that is what makes him love you , isn't it. Yes taking care of his feelings is important too...but buy your time and get over your feelings about sex and shyness...how?..well it depends of what actually bothers you regarding sex word..

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    olive_Mposted 7 years ago

    hey... frnd  ..... i m also in a similar relationship ... met of net... start lovin each other .... i live in capital city of India,,. frm ur name i can figure out u live in south .... he will understand u altough ... guys have a geater affinity towards sex.... bt i knw he will surely understand you ,.... make him understand .. with your LOVE

  4. carolp profile image81
    carolpposted 6 years ago

    Be honest to yourself and to your boyfriend. Open up...tell him about what you feel about sex discussions, for sure he will understand you.
    Communication, honesty and trust is important in a relatioship. Share each others hope and dreams, frustrations, disgusments, ideas and feelings to grow your relationship by knowing each other better.