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i just found out my husband of 4 years dose'nt think im attractive, if he thinks

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    happy2010posted 7 years ago

    i just found out my husband of 4 years dose'nt think im attractive, if he thinks that why

    did we get married if he can get better why say that now, im 115 p i try to look good why?

  2. TVTopTen profile image55
    TVTopTenposted 7 years ago

    Did you piss him off? Maybe he was just in a bad mood when he said that. Also, if you are not having sexual relations often enough he may have develop this feeling, even though it is not really true.

    Go out and buy some sexy clothing and surprise him one night. You will both be glad you did.

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    jasper420posted 7 years ago

    you need to first know you are an atractive pearson you should look good for yourslelf everyone is beatifull in there own way including you dont base your image and self worth on what ohters think you will always be dispointed instead know in your heart and mind that you are loved and worthy of love

  4. lostdogrwd profile image61
    lostdogrwdposted 7 years ago

    he marriage you because he love you. look is not important to a lot of people as it is to you. . people mostly try to look good for themselves and for other to say you look good. you marry a guy who couldn't care less how you look save to know who you are and that's OK. if he stop loving you then you should worry.

  5. FduToit profile image67
    FduToitposted 7 years ago

    How did you find out? Did he tell you? If he mentioned it to you what exactly did he say?

    In my own personal experience many woman are too sensitive about they way they look. They keep on comparing themselves to young models, etc. and feel unattractive by comparison.

    I assume your husband married you because he loved you and not because you were the most attractive woman in the world.

    There will always be other, more attractive woman out there. By the same token, I have no doubt that you are more attractive than a lot of other woman. The fact that your husband may find another woman physically attractive is normal. It does not mean he does not find you attractive or is no longer interested in being with you.