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How Do You Make A Man Fall In Love With You Instantly?

  1. ngureco profile image84
    ngurecoposted 7 years ago

    How Do You Make A Man Fall In Love With You Instantly?

  2. JustAnotherOne profile image53
    JustAnotherOneposted 7 years ago

    completely and utterly in love? im possible no matter what. love in something comlicated with the mind it self. however, instantly fall in love with the IDEA of you.. physical satisfaction..duh (:

  3. hunter sakura profile image65
    hunter sakuraposted 7 years ago

    Try to be expressive and sweet and make him fall head over heels in love with you. (^_^)

  4. pisean282311 profile image59
    pisean282311posted 7 years ago

    well instantly falling in love ...quick fix recipe?..but why would you want that?..people who instantly fall might end up instantly falling for some one else too...isn't it?..well i dont believe in instant things except in food!!!!!!!...spend time with your love interest..try to know about each other and let love enter gradually...thats my take...

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    JamesDouglasposted 7 years ago
  6. Dhatri profile image56
    Dhatriposted 7 years ago

    A man falls in love by the attraction ,and character.

  7. It's just me profile image62
    It's just meposted 7 years ago

    We can all make ourselves look as attractive as possible and use our best manners but nobody can make anyone fall in love with anyone else.

  8. Fenrisiys profile image72
    Fenrisiysposted 7 years ago

    Students asked  Socrates:
    Do you believe in love at first sight?
    He responded :
    Yes if you look a second time.
    The answer is easy:
    You can instantly seduce him, but not in love with you!
    Of course there are exceptions. They are received with improvisation.

  9. Tulai profile image63
    Tulaiposted 7 years ago

    Instant? Nothing is as instant as being yourself, so I'd say: Be yourself! If he does not fall for the self you are then he would probably have fallen out of love with you once he'd noticed that you had initially made an effort 'to be someone else' in a bid to attract him.

  10. jackie56 profile image56
    jackie56posted 7 years ago

    When a man loves a woman he loves anything what she is, what

    sounds she is producing, and the beat of his heart follows the

    steps of a woman he deeply loves.

    For sure, a woman attracts a man instantly possesing a

    physically figurative body, her dress simply combined with her

    sweet, soft smiles, a perfect, decent lady, perhaps a lady in his


    There are different actions of woman which is attractive to a man

    it might be her snobbish look, the way her hair waves, and

    when she walks.

    When a man falls in love with a woman, it should be true,

    honest, and forgiving, and absolutely an ideal woman of

    his lifetime will always be a courageous, loving partner through

    out, a partnership which will last forever.

  11. dotty1 profile image67
    dotty1posted 7 years ago

    Pretend that your flattered but not interested...they just love to hunt for the prize :-)..

    Its the picking of the right ones I struggle with hehe oh well...

    If you read my hub "I know your gonna dump me poem"...you will see I am some what sceptical of the male species.....

    However put me in front of one with nice forearms and facial hair....I'm in lurrrrrrrrrve

    oooo forgot chill they fall in love every day anyhow dont they????

  12. whoflungdung profile image59
    whoflungdungposted 7 years ago

    well all the perfume, clothes, shoes, lipstick and make up in the world will not make this happen. I fell in love once with a girl at first sight and I did not look past her eyes for about 2 minutes. Everything else is superficial, sometimes people just connect and you cannot explain it.
    That said she is now married to someone else with children, so what do I know but she will always have a special place

  13. gorgeousrn profile image51
    gorgeousrnposted 7 years ago

    Just be yourself... Man appreciates women who are very true to themselves.

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    brtaiwoposted 7 years ago

    By being yourself. Nothing more or less.

  15. Wayne Brown profile image83
    Wayne Brownposted 7 years ago

    Unless you believe in the physics of instant attraction, which in effect in merely lust, then I really do not see a way for that to happen.  In fact, speaking from a man's perspective, if you are a woman who encounters a man who claims to have instantly fallen in love with you, RUN! FORREST! RUN!  When you find these people you will also find a person who is severly in need of someone to need them so they fall in love with anyone who shows them attention and kindness. It can lead to some real trouble if you hang there.

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    SilverGenesposted 7 years ago

    First of all, you don't "make" a man do anything. Love is not a game. It grows from acceptance and knowing each other.

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    commentbugposted 7 years ago

    First ignore them, then treat them really bad and they usally love the bad guys.

  18. outdoorsguy profile image56
    outdoorsguyposted 7 years ago

    you know.. some of the womens answers are exactly why Rarely date. 

    theres two women I fell in love with, deeply.  one died.  the other cant be.   NIkki, was everything I ever wanted.  classy, looked good in an evening gown.  and in a heart beat would go  gowns to jeans and a tshirt and clmb onto a four wheeler and hit the woods.  Beautiful, sweet, a smile that lit up the room.  she was educated, and still down to earth.  and I fell for her the second she smiled at me.  and  when she died I thought My world had ended. 

    then I met Angela.  who was so like Nikki and so different.  and even though we both loved each other, it couldnt happen. and I wouldnt let it.  long story I wont  tell in this answer.   

    thing is Ladys,  so many of you put on a show. you dress up to catch a guy. you do things you hate to get him interested.  and all the while your trying to make him what you want.

    try being yourself and dating a guy thats already what you want or accept that the man your with isnt the Imaginary dream guy youve had in mind since sixteen. 

    trust me, as a guy when you wake up one morning and realize that the woman you thought you were dating or married to isnt the woman your now with is a big slap in the face.   and when a woman stops doing all the things she used to do, it bothers a guy too. 

    Nikki and Angela both had one major thing in common. they were themselves.  they didnt dress up to impress then stop.  they didnt do things to make me happy then stop.   they did what they liked and enjoyed themselves and in the process made my life pretty damn special with their presence.

    and not a day goes by that I dont think about both those women and thank god I was lucky enough to meet them. and spend the time I did with them.

  19. isellpr profile image58
    isellprposted 7 years ago

    Different people different thinking just be yourself.. it will not work instantly but sure it will work within a week

  20. solar.power profile image56
    solar.powerposted 7 years ago

    forget it....Ill get into too much trouble.....

  21. JonesChicago profile image56
    JonesChicagoposted 7 years ago

    It is easy....just kidding. There is no real answer to this question as each man is different. For the 1% of men who are still old fashioned and chivalrous like myself, honesty and an interest in what we enjoy doing is key. Do not be afraid to let us pay for dinner, open many doors for you, send you flowers or a gift on a whim, or feel the need to be very independent. We love that you want to be independent, just not so much that you have to go half on everything, or refuse to let us dote on you. There are too many women today that feel in order to meet a man and get through life they have to be as gruff, abrasive and independent as a man.

  22. writealready profile image59
    writealreadyposted 7 years ago

    I can't make you love me if you don't

    You can't make your heart feel something it won't

    (Bonnie Raitt)

  23. Kevin Peter profile image73
    Kevin Peterposted 7 years ago

    In today’s era, man instantly fall in love by a watching simple look of girl. Respect towards elders and basic requirement her attitude. The language is a great tool to make man fall love with you.

  24. yaknowwhat profile image59
    yaknowwhatposted 7 years ago

    I believe it is like lightning , it just happens . No one person on either side can "make" it happen , as we all know it takes two wink Yes a woman can seduce a man , or capture his complete attention instantly by doing certain things . This may or may not lead to love . Life is full of chances .
      Love at first sight happens for some . If the stars line up just right , each person is in the right place and at the right time (more than just physically ) you can just know in one look, with the first smile . It is different than simply lust , or desire . It is a quiet knowing in the soul , for those who are emotionally and spiritually in tune with their being . It will take time and care to develop  the relationship .
      One of my personal favorite quotes is " Bring me a whole person, and I will bring you a whole person : we will have us twice as much of love , and everything . "

  25. mohojo profile image61
    mohojoposted 7 years ago

    Rarely does a woman covertly go on the attack outside of a case of duplicity which, we've all been there. And, the word love can mean many things to many people. If you desire reduced tension, amicable connections leading to touching that can lead to familiarity, take a shortcut. Now, what neutralized my defenses is a woman that does the unexpected. There is nothing as disarming to a man than to have a woman encourage his ego. When a woman observes a subtle or not so subtle characteristic about a man's physique and she mentions it to him it will easily get conversation going. If, you already know him on personal level, try giving a complement on a recent achievement. Just like women, men like to be stroked too, but coming from a woman a complement has a sensual dimension. I know, this isn't what your mother said you should do and maybe it may seem disingenuous but it’s a change from the,'in your face', public relations we easily buy into. After that it’s up to you how you get the fish in the boat. This little scheme may not make a man fall in love with you and personally love is still too strong of an emotion. Don't get hung up on it. You may not want perfection. Maybe you just want the man.

  26. Maria Cecilia profile image86
    Maria Ceciliaposted 7 years ago

    I think men fall in love with confident women... looks like they never really enjoy it when you are overly, crazy in love with them, well I guess for a long time.  I think they don't fall in love in woman that makes them a center of her world....  so I guess men will fall in love with you as naturally as they see you. maybe we just need to love much and left some for ourselves a little... most men love to be taken cared for.....

  27. USMCwifey09 profile image72
    USMCwifey09posted 7 years ago

    I wouldn't want a man to fall instantly in love with me. He just might fall that quickly out of love with me...

  28. John B Badd profile image59
    John B Baddposted 7 years ago

    you can not make somone fall in love.  well maybe with a powerful spell but i do not know it and if i did i would not tell you or use it:P

  29. NikenDiana profile image55
    NikenDianaposted 7 years ago

    it's difficult but you can do that if you're lucky...
    so...it depends on the person can be fall in love at the first sight or not..
    For me...love comes naturally...so it can come fast or even very long...till you have your feeling right..

  30. samboiam profile image59
    samboiamposted 7 years ago

    The best way to get a man to fall in love with you instantly is flash a little cleavage and a lot of cash.

    Please no one get offended that was meant to be humorous.

  31. profile image0
    manumposted 7 years ago

    this is the life, and she takes her shoes off and flashes her toes to an admiring suitor

  32. oliviagerner profile image52
    oliviagernerposted 7 years ago

    Just check out my hub titled "Handsome Man Fall in Love with Single Women" and sure you will get the perfect answer. Have Good Day.

  33. epigramman profile image70
    epigrammanposted 7 years ago

    ..let him have absolute and complete access to the remote control and make sure there are plenty of 'brews' in the 'frig' mama!!!!

  34. moneycop profile image77
    moneycopposted 6 years ago

    A man could fall in love only when he trust her. Beauty plays great role for man as compared to women as women being attractive try to look for some qualities in man, and not beauty. So a woman can attract a man for love only when she is serious about it. if not in long run they cant go parallel.
    Surrender of body, mind and no greed can attract any one in the universe.

  35. profile image53
    mcaneny23posted 6 years ago

    First of all, you can't "make" any man just fall in love with you. Let fate take it's course and stop being so desperate. Desperation is a sign of low self-esteem. Men are more attracted to confidence and self-worth. Be who you are. That's it.

  36. Levertis Steele profile image86
    Levertis Steeleposted 5 years ago

    I am convinced that true love is something that most people do not have or understand. Women are advised to look pretty to please and keep a man, but I see men cheating on beautiful, neat, pretty, and plain women. All of the pretty in the world will not hook or keep a man who is determined to move in different directions. If he is a man who recognizes and respects a good woman and loves her truly, that will be a love story worth telling.

    Women love to be loved whether they love or not. It is exciting to a woman to have a good man fall instantly and madly in love with her. Women do a lot of fantasizing about that Romeo coming along and sweeping them off their feet. They dream so much about a happy-ever-after relationship that they are not able to deal with the imperfections when reality shows its face. So, they set out to change the man to suit their fantasies, and the problems begin. Stories like "Cinderella," "Beauty and the Beast," "Romeo and Juliet," "Prince Charming," and even "Shrek" contributed to women's expectations of perfection.

    The only way a woman can make a man fall in love with her instantly is to pray for it, and expect a miracle. I do believe in miracles! Now, the question is, will she fall instantly in love with him?

  37. profile image56
    CDegrateposted 5 years ago

    If a man falls in  love with you instantly, RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN!!!!!!!!!!

  38. Paolocruz profile image60
    Paolocruzposted 5 years ago

    Be yourself! Be confident of who you are. Regardless of your style or whatever character and wear-do you have, although not all but someone will always love it. Someone will fall in love with you and it's better if they'll love you for who you are.