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How do you deal with a guy that only wants to hang out on his time?

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    sreedy26posted 7 years ago

    How do you deal with a guy that only wants to hang out on his time?

    Its hard cause you wanna hang out with them all the time. So when they do wanna hang out you drop everything for him. UGH.....

  2. Missperfect profile image55
    Missperfectposted 7 years ago

    It can be hard but play hard to get, if you do that he will beg to spend time with you wink He has you wraped around his finger, he knows that you always are going to hang out on his terms smile So play hard to get, hang out with your friends and do stuff so that he knows that you have a life too wink

  3. jessicababel profile image60
    jessicababelposted 7 years ago

    Honestly, stop being clingy. A lot of people like time alone, so sometimes you just have to respect it, as hard as it can be.

  4. Chaotic Chica profile image70
    Chaotic Chicaposted 7 years ago

    Stay away.  I am not  suggesting you never talk to him again but this guy is playing a game, or he really doesn't care about you.  Either way, the only way to get his attention and know which is the case, is to be too busy for him.  When he calls, tell him you have plans that day but you could do something another day.  Take it from there.  This is more than a game, this is about the difference between being that girl who is hung up on the guy who is using her as a back up plan, or that girl who knows what she wants and doesn't have time for games.

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    sreedy26posted 7 years ago

    Thanks ladies this is some good advise and last friday I went and hung out with my girls. He got really mad too. I told him I had plans maybe we can hang out another night. We used to be together then we broke up and have been trying to works things out. So i'm sure hes not used to me saying i'm gonna hang out with my friends without him. I told him your not boyfriend anyway we broke up.

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    kobe316posted 3 years ago

    Here is a guy point of view and yes the ladies are right but he is trying to see how far he string you along and till you say enough is enough. He want his cake and eat it too as the saying goes. Its a number of possible reasons why he could have someone else or he just want to pick you up anytime he feel like. Remember this a man likes to be the one chasing you not being availible is gon do to things make him smarten up and be like i need to figure out way to get her to spend time wit me and he s going to show you. Or he s going to miss out on something good so like you said you single date other man or like you said have fun wit your girls and you will see which one he is