Hi. How do you make sure your husband is happy when you are working and he is no

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   MS.SUEposted 14 years ago

   Hi. How do you make sure your husband is happy when you are working and he is not? (He is King)
   
   The marriage is fine. The wife is working and taking care of the home  because of the certain circumstances and she's ok with that.The wife's concern is that when she calls home during the day or when she comes home the husband majority of the time shows no emotion, or  little affection, or isn't attentive to her. He claims its because of his upbringing, he's not so lovey dovey,but he says he does love her, so the wife just takes it all in stride and smiles to hide the hurt, but she makes sure she takes care of him and tries to keep him happy. What should he do for her?

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   Darknlovely3436posted 14 years ago

   Back in 1997-1998 I was in this same position, I work and my husband stay at home, with my daughter, however I wouldn't called him the king, but to be honest; I used to hate it,
   I remember my father as the bread winner, and when I used to come home tired from work and seeing him on the couch watching television, I was losing respect for the man... and it was taking something out of my marriage, so one day, I pound the pavement
   and got my husband  a job....( I remember when he came home with his first paycheck, it was over $2000.00 and the expression on his face, I knew he felt like a real man......so as you said he claims it because of his upbringing, he is hurting inside, not being able to take care of his wife, encourage him to look for work, let him feel like a real King of his castle..

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   Sesshoumaru2stposted 14 years ago

   don't listen to the other person.Just make sure he gets the sexual actives frequently.Do that and he will forget about everything else.

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