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  1. cjcarter profile image76
    cjcarterposted 7 years ago

    Should you tell your roommate's significant other if you know your roommate is cheating on them?

  2. jdflom profile image76
    jdflomposted 7 years ago

    It depends on a few factors.

    Is the roommate's SO more of a friend? Also, put yourself in the position of the SO, would you want your bf/gf's roommate telling you this?

    Another thing to consider is if your roommate found out you were the one who told. How will that affect you and your living situation? You may want to just keep it to yourself unless asked -- in which case you should not lie.

    It's hard keeping something like that to yourself because we don't like to see other people getting taken advantage of, but sometimes it just isn't your problem to meddle with. You run the risk of getting sucked into the drama.

    I know it isn't a clear answer, but hopefully I've brought up some things to help you consider what you should do.

  3. MickS profile image71
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Keep your nose out of other people's business.

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    klarawieckposted 7 years ago

    No. That's not your business. Let them handle their own matters. That's my advice anyways. Good luck!

  5. Winterfate profile image96
    Winterfateposted 7 years ago

    Only if you have hard proof. Otherwise, you'll come out as the villain if your roommate manages to downplay your accusation.

    Also, I pretty much agree with what jdflom said. Weigh the pros and cons and make a decision based on that.

    On a personal note, I wouldn't want to be a roommate to someone like that. People like that disgust me.