Marriage to a rich girl for money, luxury & bright career and future?

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   traffordposted 14 years ago

   Marriage to a rich girl for money, luxury & bright career and future?
   
   I recently meet a girl, who is actually very rich and financially well settled, so she is fall in love with  me in few days and ready to marry me, but i am already committed, so what do you say, if i leave my ex-girl friend and get married with that richy girl for my career and luxury life, so am i doing any thing wrong? isn't it my right to make my life's decision on my favor?

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   dablueposted 14 years ago

   luxry,money,wealth just name it may just be meaningless without happiness and true love. Now search yourself do you love your ex gf? Do you love your new gf better for real or just what she has? Are you ever satisfied with your ex gf b4 you met your new gf? Who truly is the best for you if you put aside luxry,wealth and whatsoever the advantage you think you will gain frow your new gf?
   If you truly answer the question without being biased. Then answer this last true one. Will you ever make it without your new and ex gf's?
   Having said the above here is my advise your ex may be the best for you depending on your answer and if you have not been compatible with your ex ,your new gf might fit. You know in your hearth the right thing by now. Dont hesitate to take the new gf and move on with your life if she is the best. I mean don't try to please your ex and displease yourself that's the most worst scenero.
   Search deeply ,dont marry because of money and luxry alone the marriage may not last. You loose happiness and love which are God given. Money cant buy true love. Now decide

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   wademcmasterposted 14 years ago

   I think marrying for those reasons will leave you very unfulfilled in the long term. having access to such wealth would be awesome at first, but it would get old, and when the times are tough, nto just financially, a woman you want to be with is always going to be a better crutch than some stranger you live with for money...

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   Right On Timeposted 14 years ago

   People who are rich are rich for a reason - she'll suss you out in days and you'll be out of there minus money!

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   Rhayahposted 14 years ago

   Hi Trafford!
   
   I think you already know the answer to this question.  Put yourself in your girlfriend's shoes...how would you feel if the man that you love left you for someone else's money?
   
   Besides, money has never bought anyone happiness.  I'd rather be poor and with someone who loves then have all the world with someone who doesn't.  No amount of money is worth true love. 
   
   I believe your decision should be based upon the woman you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with, growing old together, your decision should be based upon things that matter and not purely materialistic and superficial.
   
   Good luck

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