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Can I get him back after he found out I cheated and then lied about it?

  1. profile image47
    HisSLSposted 7 years ago

    Can I get him back after he found out I cheated and then lied about it?

    I cheated on him early in the relationship before realising he's the one. He found out (it was a nite of kissing at a club followed by a ONS) and I denied 3 times, as the truth slowly came out (I admitted the kissing and denied the rest, etc). He now knows the full story and dumped me. The thing is, I can still feel him wanting to want me back but he's too hurt by what I did. I know I'm wrong. I lied because I was afraid he wouldn't forgive me. Please help me get him back! - and tell me how to make him love me again?

  2. jdomingo profile image61
    jdomingoposted 7 years ago

    You my friend have a very difficult dilemma.

    My question to you would be do you really want him back or do you just not want to be alone?  Either way to get him back will not be a simple task that is if he is willing to take you back.  I'd start by winning back his trust first and foremost which won't be overnight.  If this is the first time you might have a little bit better luck than if it is a recurrence.  Time and patience is what I recommend that and some space you probably don't want to smother him if this is still fresh on his mind.

    Best of luck to you,

    I think you'll need it.

  3. krishubpages123 profile image32
    krishubpages123posted 7 years ago

    What you have to give him is the assurance that you should not get it again etc., and make him feel that you had mistaken that time because you had drunken etc., and keep following that promise here after and keep telling him that you are only relieing on him only by words and actions each and every time you get a chance for long time, since he finds you and get confirmation of your promise to him then you can get back him...

  4. Cheeky Girl profile image72
    Cheeky Girlposted 7 years ago

    He is afraid that it might happen again. So tell him it was a mistake and that it was wrong  or an accident. Tell him that he is the one, that he is so important to you, and also try asking him what do you need to do. Ask him what will it take? Ask him for guidance. Ask him what he wants, and don't wreck your head trying to think of everything. Tell him your feelings for him are still the same. Ask him to forgive you. Ask him has he ever made a mistake? An error. An oversight? You need to show him you want him. I would also suggest getting trusted friend to help pass on your messages to him, if that will help.

    It won't be easy. You will really have to want him back very much and mean it. He is hurt, and he might still have feelings. If he does, then there's a chance...

    Best of luck to you!

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  5. A la carte profile image58
    A la carteposted 7 years ago

    If you feel he is the one and he feels something for you then you need to speak to him. You need to tell him how you feel. Just remember he feels hurt and it might take time for him to feel about you the way he did, if ever.