Hello reesecup I could use some advise. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 ye

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    jasmine91posted 8 years ago

    Hello reesecup I could use some advise. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and he still...

    won't give me a key to his apartment. I have given him a key to my place. What could this mean we haven't had any trust issues in the past but now I am not so sure. What do you think?

  2. reesecup81 profile image57
    reesecup81posted 8 years ago

    Well jasmine if you don't have any trust issues in your relationship now don't create some. Although you didn't mention I am sure after giving him your key you have been asking him for his. With men it is cut and dry if you keep pushing he will push away so stop asking and let him be the man and take charge. If he is a good man he will offer a key when he is ready just be patient with him.

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    Word Drawposted 8 years ago

    He may have something to hide or feels like he doesn't want to give you free access to his world and everything in his life. Do you think you would respect his privacy and not go through his things when he is not at home if you had the ability? Is he secretive about other things like not letting you use his computer or see his phone or text messages? Do you know if he has issue in general with his personal space and belongings? Will he lend things out freely or let you drive his car? If he is not weird about this kind of stuff in general then I think he may be hiding something. But if he is very controlling of his possessions and territory, then I think it might just be his personality and not a red flag. Also, what reason does he himself give for not giving you a key? That could be the truth whatever it is. I think for men it might also be a sign of commitment and you know how afraid they are of that.

  4. bestbuddy profile image61
    bestbuddyposted 8 years ago

    well this is not a big deal. You should not distrust yourself by thinking like this. I do hope you have pure relationship up-till now. just give him time, the situation would automatically be fine because one doubt can spoil a pure relationship.
    so don't create this doubt in your mind

  5. MickS profile image67
    MickSposted 8 years ago

    This reminds me of an old girlfriend I had.  Three years we were together, went out places, had fun, great sex, but then the nagging started, 'what's your name, where do you live?'


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