Sex Dreams/Fantasy's - Is it wrong to have them when you are already committed t

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  1. Julie2 profile image58
    Julie2posted 8 years ago

    Sex Dreams/Fantasy's - Is it wrong to have them when you are already committed to someone?

  2. profile image52
    Lula Blummzposted 8 years ago

    This generally depends on your relationship to yourself and your partner and how the 2 of you feel about it... perhaps these dreams/fantasies can be lived out if you talk about it. To answer the question... a dream or fantasy is just opposed to the alternative of acting on the fantasy.

  3. HannahRiley profile image60
    HannahRileyposted 8 years ago

    Umm...I don't think that sex dreams are wrong...simply because you can't control them. I have had dreams that I was so disgusted with when I woke up...and for no reason? I think a fantasy is different...that is a conscious thought or obsession about someone that you have created and though up the way you want it to go. I think it is ok to have simple fantasies because it can make you appreciate what you really have, and can make you still feel sexy...just like a little flirting can. But whenever it consumes your mind more than your partner, it can pose some difficulties.

  4. trafford profile image38
    traffordposted 8 years ago

    off-course not if you are dreaming of the same guy with whom you are committed, dreaming of fantasy and sexy is not wrong , its all about your inner wishes that you wan to fulfill and do, but the wrong is you are dreaming of sexual activity with another guy tongue

  5. Susana S profile image95
    Susana Sposted 8 years ago

    Not at all - it's very normal to have these kinds of dreams. They don't always mean what one might expect either ie: that you are attracted to someone else or that you need sexual release. (Though of course these can be possible interpretations.)

    A sex dream can also mean that you deeply love the other person in the dream or that you are uniting parts of yourself.

    It can not be called wrong - it just is.

  6. seductivepeace18 profile image57
    seductivepeace18posted 8 years ago

    I think you should make these fantasy's come to reailty with your lover

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    jasper420posted 8 years ago

    its not wrong this is a nautral thing its wrong to act upon them we all have fantacys that dosent change with a partnership


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