How do I deal with the pain of finding out my husband has a child born of his affair?
Wow, that is really tough to deal with. I know that it had to hurt really bad to find out that he had an affair and to add insult to injury a child was produced from it. I could not imagine. But if you still love this man, you are still together and you forgave him for the affair, then you would just have to deal with what has happened. It's not the baby's fault, but if you just cannot deal with the pain, now that these other people are now in your lives, due to the fact that your husband could not keep it in his pants, then I would say you guys should seek some kind of counseling in order for you to deal with this. There is no magic pill that you can take to make this all go away. You can't turn back the hands of time, but what you can do is try to talk it out with someone who can help you heal from this. Keep Your Head Up! Things can and will get better. Never let someone else's dumb actions rain on your parade. Smile through the hurt and laugh through the pain. You are not the one who messed up, so why should you have to hurt.
by Judy Specht 2 years ago
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by wifelv 2 years ago
My ex had an affair with married women and they are still together after it all began 3yrs ago. Our divorce was final 3 months ago. They are now living together. I keep waiting for them to get back what they gave out, but it seems to be taking a long time. She will not let him talk with me or see...
by Crystal Marie Antoinette 5 years ago
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by StricktlyDating 3 years ago
Should I tell my friend her husband is having an affair?My other friends say she won't believe me, and I'll only end up looking like the bad girl! But if it was me, I'd want to know.
by nancy.mac 8 years ago
How to deal with greedy husband?He always want to spend my money. He doesn't want to give as much money as I want. The money whatever I earn he tells me not to spend and plans in such a way that I will not be left with any money even though I earn myself. He watches and controls my...
by cdmpls 7 years ago
I felt that it was best because if I felt that guilty it was better to open up to him..
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