Do you think revenge is bliss or is it better to forgive and forget if the situa

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   funnydbzchickposted 14 years ago

   Do you think revenge is bliss or is it better to forgive and forget if the situation is bad enough?

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   reeltaulkposted 14 years ago

   I think for everyone that is a personal call.  It all depends on so much.  Is the person someone that is worth forgiving, meaning if you do forgive them the odds of them doing something to hurt you again is extremely slim.  Do you find yourself constantly "forgiving" this person only to be reminded when they return and do you dirty Again?  As for revenge, that is a very personal call.  You will have to be able to live with whatever you choose to do, basically have no remorse....ciao

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   ladyjojoposted 14 years ago

   Good night the right thing to do is to forgave an try to forget. I said try because forgetting seems a lot harder than forgiving but keep praying and you'd see you'd over come it . Revenge is the evil way. God said Vengeance is mines He'll deal with the situation in a very professional manner for you even if it takes years He will.
   
   Also if you believe in God am sure you do sin and ask him for forgiveness and surely He do forgave us time atfer time, so you do like ways okay

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   tmbridgelandposted 14 years ago

   Revenge is always a bad idea. But to forgive and forget is hard. Depends on if you think the person will do the same thing again. Sometimes it is best to forgive, and then avoid that person.

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   KristenGraceposted 14 years ago

   Tough question.  I believe in karma and what goes around comes around so... in theory, if somebody wrongs you "bad enough" then it should come back to hit them even worse.  I don't necessarily believe in revenge, but justice, yes.  Sometimes it's too hard to forgive and forget.  Personally if I was wronged that badly, I just try to forget...

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   mandyfposted 14 years ago

   revenge is always the easy way out. It takes a lot to forgive even the most horrible of things. Forgiveness alows you to grow as a person and shows how great a person can truely be.

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   msorenssonposted 14 years ago

   "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." ~Mahatma Gandhi

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   They say the best revenge is to live a wonderful life.  To some people forgiveness is important to them to allow them to move forward, but personally I just say forget it (that person and the situation) and move on...

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