It is absolutely ironic and somehow stupid. I'm 43, I've been married , had a couple long term...
relationships and had no idea that such thing as casual dating even exists. I'm Russian, and this is part of American life and culture was never introduced to me. So, five month ago I met a man. He is not my usual type but I decided to give it a try. Whatever we have was good, very good. At some point I started thinking why he is hiding me from his friends. So I just asked ,and I got answer "we are casually dating but relationship may happen between us" I'm just shocked. I was absolutely sure we are a couple. Why he didn't tell me that from the beginning? And what should I do now?
If you are not happy you should stop seeing him.
You have nothing to lose. After all you stated he wasn't your type to begin with. Apparently he also does not see you as being his type either.
Awhile back I posted a hub titled "How do I avoid becoming a booty call?"
The tricky part about being a "booty call" is one is lulled into feeling like they are in a "real relationship".
It's only natural not to bring "everyone" you date around your close family, friends, and co-workers. However I would say if you have been seeing someone for over 3 months and you have not been introduced to anyone close to them then it's because they see you as being a "booty call".
Just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder so is a booty call.
We really have very little say in how people view us.
One man's "booty call" is another man's dream girl!
You want to find a guy who shares the same vision as you!
He has openly told you his stand. If you are okay with that, you can proceed as it has been. Or, you can stop.
by Mikeydoes 7 years ago
Nothing against your spouse if you have one, but in a different life, knowing what you know now, would you get married?Being 24 I have a tough decision to make, and I haven't decided.
by beverlyannblock 6 years ago
How many times have you been married?I've been married twice. Once, because I didn't want to stay at home at 18 and the other, I waited until I found love at 46, now, 57 and happily married.
by brokensoul 7 years ago
I am prepared to get beaten up for this, but the reason I'm here is because I have no one I can confide in and I'm feeling anxious, depressed and bitter. My life was turned upside down two years ago and while I have dealt with all the rotten things thrown at me, one night I decided to escape...
by Allie Backers 19 months ago
Why do people get marriedAll they do is party!
by Brian 8 years ago
I'm just curious if anyone has ever fallen head over heels in love with someone after only knowing them for a short time. I was camping at a gay campground over the past week, and I met a very handsome man, who I felt an immediate attraction to. You could almost say it was love at first sight....
by floraj15 8 years ago
I've been married almost 3 years and I'm thinking that I made a wrong choice with my husband. He isno more to say
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