What is the best way to rekindle feelings from the earlier parts of a relationship?
If you've been dating someone for a while, and at times you feel like your relationship has changed quite a bit, what can you do to bring back the feelings of when you just started dating?
Hi MrKnowledge thanks for your question. To keep the spark in your relationship it's a good idea to take up an activity or hobby that you can share together (It could be something like taking Tennis Lessons together, or even just an evening walk a few times a week). By doing something like this together regularly you should strengthen your bond. Another idea is concentrate on being thoughtful and spontaineous - For example, if you know she likes Roses, pick up a bunch when you're passing the Florest shop and tell her when you saw them you thought of her... Sometimes even little romantic gestures can make a woman feel special - and therefore will treat you that way in return. For a quick fix to rekindle feelings plan a romantic dinner (Either out or at home) or a weekend away somewhere special. Goodluck
You can never have that 'first love' feeling back because your relationship is moving towards a more mature love.
In order to introduce more excitement, add laughter to your lives. Evolutionarily speaking, laughter is an attractive move, rising certain chemicals in the body to generate a mating response, a familiar response, and a protective attitude. In other words, it strengthens the bond.
When things are comfortable yet lacking in romance, do something out of the ordinary. Bring flowers, cook a meal, get down on one knee and recite a short love poem (Shakespeare is the most recognized).
Take them out on a date, and behave shyly, coy if you will. Ask them questions on this date that you didn't ask on the first one.
Go dancing, and not to a club with lots of noise.
When you are first dating everything is new, exciting. To bring back similar feelings is to do similar activities.
Make a list of all the characteristics that your cherish about that person, then meditate on those. You know, just like you did in the beginning.
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