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my boyfriend broke up with me cuz i kept accusing him of cheatin and stuff

  1. profile image44
    COOKIEBAYBEEposted 7 years ago

    my boyfriend broke up with me cuz i kept accusing him of cheatin and stuff

    he also says i have a bad attitude so we took a break then he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship with anybody and got a new girlfriend dat same day please help i want dis boy bac so we can e a family again

  2. MickS profile image71
    MickSposted 7 years ago

    Well, you've got your answer, he became fed up with your nagging and went elsewhere.  There is an old way, 'I may as well do what I'm being accused of.'
    One other thing, what is, 'cheatin and stuff'?

  3. nightwork4 profile image59
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    you got what you deserved if you had no proof. if he was cheating the why would you want him back anyway?

  4. lovelife08 profile image61
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    You answered your own question.  You kept accusing him and nagging him.  But, did he actually do it?  That is what you did not know, nor did you have any real proof.  I would be fed up with it too personally.  My advice for next time is...don't be suspicious unless you find a REAL reason to be suspicious.  Also, there is no chance of you getting this boy back.  Sorry to break your heart, but he's gone, and he's gone for good.  Nobody wants an accusing girlfriend when they're doing nothing wrong.

  5. libby1970 profile image70
    libby1970posted 5 years ago

    My question to you is why did you keep accusing him of nonsense? I had a boyfriend who was always so paranoid he accused me of every member of the opposite sex I can into contact with. It was pure jealousy mixed with his insecurities. A relationship will not work if you don't trust the other person...and you my dear are learning this the hard way. Take these tips and move on with your life.

    1. Don't accuse people of things just because they cross your mind!
    2. Trust people until they give you reason not to.
    3. Learn to love yourself before loving others.
    4. Don't linger on the past. Move on...he has.
    5. Be confident in yourself then you can put confidence in others!

  6. ReneeDC1979 profile image62
    ReneeDC1979posted 5 years ago

    I see it's almost two years since you posted this.  I hope the decision you made worked out.  In any relationship, if you don't trust them, don't be with them.  And if they tell you they don't want you then move on, it wasn't meant to be.