my boyfriend broke up with me cuz i kept accusing him of cheatin and stuff

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   COOKIEBAYBEEposted 14 years ago

   my boyfriend broke up with me cuz i kept accusing him of cheatin and stuff
   
   he also says i have a bad attitude so we took a break then he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship with anybody and got a new girlfriend dat same day please help i want dis boy bac so we can e a family again

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   MickSposted 14 years ago

   Well, you've got your answer, he became fed up with your nagging and went elsewhere.  There is an old way, 'I may as well do what I'm being accused of.'
   One other thing, what is, 'cheatin and stuff'?

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   nightwork4posted 14 years ago

   you got what you deserved if you had no proof. if he was cheating the why would you want him back anyway?

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   lovelife08posted 13 years ago

   You answered your own question.  You kept accusing him and nagging him.  But, did he actually do it?  That is what you did not know, nor did you have any real proof.  I would be fed up with it too personally.  My advice for next time is...don't be suspicious unless you find a REAL reason to be suspicious.  Also, there is no chance of you getting this boy back.  Sorry to break your heart, but he's gone, and he's gone for good.  Nobody wants an accusing girlfriend when they're doing nothing wrong.

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   libby1970posted 12 years ago

   My question to you is why did you keep accusing him of nonsense? I had a boyfriend who was always so paranoid he accused me of every member of the opposite sex I can into contact with. It was pure jealousy mixed with his insecurities. A relationship will not work if you don't trust the other person...and you my dear are learning this the hard way. Take these tips and move on with your life.
   
   1. Don't accuse people of things just because they cross your mind!
   2. Trust people until they give you reason not to.
   3. Learn to love yourself before loving others.
   4. Don't linger on the past. Move on...he has.
   5. Be confident in yourself then you can put confidence in others!

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   ReneeDC1979posted 12 years ago

   I see it's almost two years since you posted this.  I hope the decision you made worked out.  In any relationship, if you don't trust them, don't be with them.  And if they tell you they don't want you then move on, it wasn't meant to be.

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