My boyfriend has 2 facebook profiles, one says in a relationship with me, the ot

Jump to Last Post 1-15 of 15 discussions (15 posts)
  1. profile image55
    hollyfuhrmanposted 13 years ago

    My boyfriend has 2 facebook profiles, one says in a relationship with me, the other says single,...

    he refuses to add me to the one that says single, he says he needs something private from me.  What does this mean?

  2. KewlWriter profile image63
    KewlWriterposted 13 years ago

    He refuses to add you?? That is strange. You need to know if he is trying to get with someone else. Just keep your eyes open.

  3. Hogan Quick profile image61
    Hogan Quickposted 13 years ago

    Sounds like your bf already answered your question.

  4. denden mangubat profile image69
    denden mangubatposted 13 years ago

    it means he want to add another gf.just obseve him if he is really doing something wrong

  5. Ellen_C profile image68
    Ellen_Cposted 13 years ago

    It sounds like there are more issues. This is shady behavior. If he is keeping something private it needs to be another hobby, not an alternate life. Even if it was private, he can still list that he is in a relationship without adding a person's name. I would stay away from that guy.

  6. puebloman profile image61
    pueblomanposted 13 years ago

    It means he wants to shag you and he would also like to shag someone else. Grow up.

  7. MR.POINT OF VIEW profile image59
    MR.POINT OF VIEWposted 13 years ago

    That means you need to do what he's doing and react just like him when he finds out about your new facebook profile. If he think you're wrong to do this then you tell him," look who's talking!"Then if he try you, splash some hot water on him!

  8. dippykitty profile image61
    dippykittyposted 13 years ago

    It does sound rather suspicious, to be honest. Generally when someone is hiding something or keeping secrets, it's rarely a good thing! I've never really known anyone to have two Facebook profiles unless one is work-related (it doesn't sound like this one is) and in that case, you'd surely just keep relationship statuses and other private info hidden if you didn't want to reveal it on "professional" profiles. If this is two personal profiles, I'd be suspicious, to put it mildly.

  9. profile image0
    ieifoodposted 13 years ago

    It could mean various things, however... it's not likely a positive one.

    You should go ahead and ask HIM openly what the second profile means, what it's purpose is and why is he refusing to add you? Once he answers you, then choose what to do, not before wink

  10. LIFE IS ABOUT profile image60
    LIFE IS ABOUTposted 13 years ago

    then he's not your boyfriend, your his back up.

  11. stricktlydating profile image84
    stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

    It means he's wanting to maintain relationships with other women behind your back.  He won't add you to the second profile because he doesn't want you to see what's on his wall and who his friends are etc, he sounds like he feel he needs to have his 'bit on the side'.  If I were you I'd ask him to delete the second profile out of respect for you, and if he won't I'd consider leaving him..

  12. padmendra profile image50
    padmendraposted 13 years ago

    He is perhaps leading a double standard life. If he really loves you, he should not conceal any thing from you including privacy related matters. His continued effort on this issue which is very sensitive, the day  is not  far away when you both will be  struggling  to survive in the relationship.

  13. Stan Fletcher profile image60
    Stan Fletcherposted 13 years ago

    Ask for his password on his 'single' account.  If he won't give it to you, dump him.

  14. alphonsians93 profile image57
    alphonsians93posted 13 years ago

    I experienced this kind of thing... if your boyfriend is doing that it mean one thing... he still want to mingle with other women on the net or in person.  My advice to you if he could not show how much he loves you on the web.. then that is something you have to think over and over again...

  15. Stefan Dobrev profile image58
    Stefan Dobrevposted 6 years ago

    Try changing your status to SINGLE then.


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)