My boyfriend has 2 facebook profiles, one says in a relationship with me, the ot

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   hollyfuhrmanposted 14 years ago

   My boyfriend has 2 facebook profiles, one says in a relationship with me, the other says single,...
   
   he refuses to add me to the one that says single, he says he needs something private from me.  What does this mean?

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   KewlWriterposted 14 years ago

   He refuses to add you?? That is strange. You need to know if he is trying to get with someone else. Just keep your eyes open.

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   Hogan Quickposted 14 years ago

   Sounds like your bf already answered your question.

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   denden mangubatposted 14 years ago

   it means he want to add another gf.just obseve him if he is really doing something wrong

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   Ellen_Cposted 14 years ago

   It sounds like there are more issues. This is shady behavior. If he is keeping something private it needs to be another hobby, not an alternate life. Even if it was private, he can still list that he is in a relationship without adding a person's name. I would stay away from that guy.

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   pueblomanposted 14 years ago

   It means he wants to shag you and he would also like to shag someone else. Grow up.

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   MR.POINT OF VIEWposted 14 years ago

   That means you need to do what he's doing and react just like him when he finds out about your new facebook profile. If he think you're wrong to do this then you tell him," look who's talking!"Then if he try you, splash some hot water on him!

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   dippykittyposted 14 years ago

   It does sound rather suspicious, to be honest. Generally when someone is hiding something or keeping secrets, it's rarely a good thing! I've never really known anyone to have two Facebook profiles unless one is work-related (it doesn't sound like this one is) and in that case, you'd surely just keep relationship statuses and other private info hidden if you didn't want to reveal it on "professional" profiles. If this is two personal profiles, I'd be suspicious, to put it mildly.

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   ieifoodposted 14 years ago

   It could mean various things, however... it's not likely a positive one.
   
   You should go ahead and ask HIM openly what the second profile means, what it's purpose is and why is he refusing to add you? Once he answers you, then choose what to do, not before

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    LIFE IS ABOUTposted 14 years ago

    then he's not your boyfriend, your his back up.

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    stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

    It means he's wanting to maintain relationships with other women behind your back.  He won't add you to the second profile because he doesn't want you to see what's on his wall and who his friends are etc, he sounds like he feel he needs to have his 'bit on the side'.  If I were you I'd ask him to delete the second profile out of respect for you, and if he won't I'd consider leaving him..

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    padmendraposted 14 years ago

    He is perhaps leading a double standard life. If he really loves you, he should not conceal any thing from you including privacy related matters. His continued effort on this issue which is very sensitive, the day  is not  far away when you both will be  struggling  to survive in the relationship.

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    Stan Fletcherposted 14 years ago

    Ask for his password on his 'single' account.  If he won't give it to you, dump him.

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    alphonsians93posted 14 years ago

    I experienced this kind of thing... if your boyfriend is doing that it mean one thing... he still want to mingle with other women on the net or in person.  My advice to you if he could not show how much he loves you on the web.. then that is something you have to think over and over again...

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    Stefan Dobrevposted 7 years ago

    Try changing your status to SINGLE then.

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