My ex and I have been divorced for a year. We share custody of our 2 year old daughter. He...
recently moved a girlfriend in to the house and i'm very uncomfortable with it. I feel that it is too soon for my baby girl to have girlfriends come and go. I'm very careful to date on the days that I don't have my daughter and never in my own home for her safety. I just can seem to come to terms with the difference in values between my ex and myself.
Grow up, just because you have this absurd notion of your boyfriends doesn't give you the right to apply it to your ex and his girlfriends; you are no longer the centre of each others universe.
Are you using your child as a tool in emotional blackmail?
While it's hard, and your imagination may run wild about what kind of woman she is, you will drive yourself nuts unless you let go of thinking about those things.
Many people get legal divorces, not many get emotional ones. Read my article here on HP called 'Terms of engagement'.
As hard as this seems, you'll have to trust him. NOT dwell on the new girlfiriend. Maybe, for your child's sake, you can develop a cordial relationship with her. Anything to keep the peace and your daughter out of any awkward situations.
I am soon to be divorced as well, I understand as an over protective parent of a girl, how this may feel. I on the other hand dont mind him having girlfriends but, in my ex case he doent have a place to call home.. he's a house hopper so I feel that in order for him to take her out or go to this place and that place even his girlfriend that I need to meet her, and get a feel with what type of person she may be..As well as knowing were they are going to be. Now once we meet the girl.. It's then time to relax a little and trust him to make mature decisions..But, at the end of the day it's your child and you have every right to feel how ever you choose to feel.
by ngureco 4 years ago
Should a wife allow her husband to attend the funeral of ex-wife who divorced him 15 years ago?
by Rosie Rose 3 years ago
If your boyfriend/girlfriend still has pictures of his ex hanging on his wall, what would you do?
by kellybelle 6 years ago
Kim, I was divorced in Tennessee and given custody of our daughter in 2003. She relocated...with me to Idaho where we have lived since that time. The father moved to Florida a few years ago and our daughter visits with him every summer. She is now 12 and expressed an interest in living...
by ngureco 7 years ago
Would Looking at Your Girlfriend’s Mother Tell You How She Will Look Like In Old Age?
by ms catatonia 4 years ago
Is it ok for your husband to privately email an ex girlfriend and then lie about it?I have had a lot of trust issues with my husband one being that he was privately emailing back and forth many times with his ex girlfriend and when I expressed my feelings on it and let him know I felt that he still...
by frustrated1 6 years ago
My ex and I have joint custody split 50/50 and have been divorced for 10 years. I've got questionsabout school. We only live a couple of miles apart but we're in 2 different school districts. The kids go to where their dad is districted due to mutual agreement. But whenever my kids talk about...
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. HubPages and Hubbers (authors) may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
|HubPages Device ID||This is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel||This is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.|
|Remarketing Pixels||We may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels||We may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.|