How do I trust after being hurt in past relationships
Guys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?
First, recognize that everyone is different. Second, heal yourself and get help if you need it. Sometimes when we don't heal ourselves, we end up finding the same types of people and get hurt all over again because we haven't healed ourselves first. Dr. Drew Pinsky talks about this a lot on his Loveline radio show. Third, trust takes time and if he's new as you've stated, then it may be too early to take that emotional leap.
It's hard to trust again after having your
First and far most be sure that you are over the
relationship by throwing away any items that remind you of the relationship or
pack them away in a place that you will never
go look for them.
Second feel your pain ,don't leave the hurt bottled up inside.
Third start something new, not a relationship but a friendship with another male or female.
This will help you to learn the person as a friend before you can trust them in
a real love relationship.
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by Michelle7 years ago
Have you told your partner about all of your past relationships?
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