How do I trust after being hurt in past relationships
Guys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?
First, recognize that everyone is different. Second, heal yourself and get help if you need it. Sometimes when we don't heal ourselves, we end up finding the same types of people and get hurt all over again because we haven't healed ourselves first. Dr. Drew Pinsky talks about this a lot on his Loveline radio show. Third, trust takes time and if he's new as you've stated, then it may be too early to take that emotional leap.
It's hard to trust again after having your
First and far most be sure that you are over the
relationship by throwing away any items that remind you of the relationship or
pack them away in a place that you will never
go look for them.
Second feel your pain ,don't leave the hurt bottled up inside.
Third start something new, not a relationship but a friendship with another male or female.
This will help you to learn the person as a friend before you can trust them in
a real love relationship.
by sx1889 7 years ago
I've been hurt by men in the past, so how do I trust my new boyfriend after other men have hurt me?My boyfriend tells me "that either I trust him or I don't"!! Is it that easy after other men have hurt me in past relationships? How do I learn to trust a man again?
by mace729 8 years ago
does any one realy get overbeing hurt by there partners?
by sx1889 7 years ago
How to trust after being by past relationshipsGuys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?
by Amanda Cardwell 22 months ago
My boyfriend don't comfort me anymore what should I do?
by rick023 7 years ago
I have always been the type of guy that just goes with the flow of things and believes that things in life should just evolve naturally. For example, I struggle with formal aspects of relationships and just prefer to let things happen as they do and feel that if things are good they will...
by kallini2010 6 years ago
Have your ever "recycled" your romantic relationships?Recycling means - you have dated him/her before, split up, then met up and started dating again. Why, why not and what do you think about "recycling"?
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