How do I trust after being hurt in past relationships

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    sx1889posted 7 years ago

    How do I trust after being hurt in past relationships

    Guys have hurt me in the past. My new boyfriend says that I either trust him or I don't!! Is it really that simple to trust a man again after being hurt by others?

  2. Moon Willow Lake profile image75
    Moon Willow Lakeposted 7 years ago

    First, recognize that everyone is different. Second, heal yourself and get help if you need it. Sometimes when we don't heal ourselves, we end up finding the same types of people and get hurt all over again because we haven't healed ourselves first. Dr. Drew Pinsky talks about this a lot on his Loveline radio show. Third, trust takes time and if he's new as you've stated, then it may be too early to take that emotional leap.

  3. Wonder Referrals profile image37
    Wonder Referralsposted 7 years ago

    It's hard to trust again after having your
    heart broken.
    First and far most be sure that you are over the
    relationship by throwing away any items that remind you of the relationship or
    pack them away in a place that you will never
    go look for them.

    Second feel  your pain ,don't leave the hurt bottled up inside.
    Third start something new, not a relationship but a friendship with another male or female.

    This will help you to learn the person as a friend  before you can trust them in
    a real love relationship.