You can't let go until you are ready. Sometimes it takes a year. Sometimes, it takes 4 minutes. You can't MAKE yourself let go of the past. It happens over time...and it depends upon how badly you are hurt and what good things happen to you in the next 24 hours, week, month...etc.
Stay busy, even if you are stuck in your room and can't face the world. Play simple computer games like sudoku. play hearts or backgammon online with people from around the world. Don't watch tv...it's a cluster mind-f**k.
actually...I have something for you to try: Read my article and listen to the songs about breaking up...even if that's not your problem. I promise there are no country western songs...well, nothing dumb. REALLY, try my link
http://www.suite101.com/content/feel-go … ce-a281796
These songs will make you feel better, or at least not feel like you are the only one who goes through this s**t. I have a song article for guys but guys will have to look for it on the same site. no link.
by Bella Nina6 years ago
How do you move on with someone when your heart belongs to another?How do you move on with someone when your heart belongs to another, but you can never be with the one you are already in love with?
by CHICANA BONITA8 years ago
SOMETIMES JUST LETTING GO OF THE PAST IS SO HARD TO DO. SPEAKING FOR MYSELF, IF I DONT HAVE CLOSER AND UNDERSTANDING ITS LIKE IM CONSUMED WITH THOUGHTS.
by skyfire5 years ago
How do you let your past go?Many of us have some rough past and something that haunts us every now and then. How do you let go of things in past and live in present?
by Elizabeth996 years ago
Do I really have to forgive the past to move forward?They always tell you to forget the past and live in the now, but I want to remember my past-it is what made me. But if I want to be happy now how can I heal myself...
by awoodog7 years ago
Why can't we let the past go?If you look at all the conflict in the world, alot is based on long past history. For the most part people fighting today had nothing to do with past wrongs, so why cant we let the past go...
by Tanya Jones3 years ago
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