my girlfriend and I are extremely close. We spend on average 6-7 days together and we are...
trying to find a place to move into together. When I'm out with her friends she ignores me for the most part and exclusively enjoys the company of her friends and I feel totally left out. More so she spends a whole lot of time with her male friend and they sometimes disappear together. She claims she never slept with him and has no interest in him but i have never seen a relationship where a dude's girlfriend abandon's him for hours at a time and enjoys the company of her male friend. When they are together I'm never included.
I know it is very utilitarian but I often times view relationships as contract negotiations. The only thing that really matters is that it works. Whether what works is "normal" or not, I think is less important.
The key part of that is negotiation. She may not have any idea how you feel. She very well might think everything is swell. Everyone needs a little time with just their friends, I think, maybe she just needs more than some. And as for the other guy, maybe that comes from his end - maybe it is just a really special friendship to him and he doesn't want any one in on it.
Personally, what you describe is something I would definitely want to work out before making the big step of moving in together. Best of luck to you.
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