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Love marriage or arranged marriage

  1. wilsontom profile image61
    wilsontomposted 7 years ago

    Love marriage or arranged marriage

    which one is better arranged marriage or love marriage

  2. Cory J. Clark profile image60
    Cory J. Clarkposted 7 years ago

    I would go with the obvious... marriage for love.
    However, if you have to ask, I would say maybe you would be better off with an arranged marriage.  It's more pragmatic, for people who have a hard time with decisions.

  3. Bijosh profile image57
    Bijoshposted 7 years ago

    Best one is arranged because you will have the back up of your parents and relatives most of the time.

  4. mcwriter profile image82
    mcwriterposted 7 years ago

    Love marriage is better because it offers the chance for two people to sort out their emotional intelligences and make choices on the second most important question any person has to answer this side of life.
    The only reason I do not choose arranged love here is that unless it is based on an unbroken tradition it is an unnecessarily interference in the exercise of one's will.

  5. Torys Ten profile image60
    Torys Tenposted 7 years ago

    The most natural answer, of course, is marriage for love. However, I doubt marriage for love is any more successful than arranged marriages. There is no real love at the beginning of any marriage. There may be extreme attraction and emotion, but it isn't love. Love comes after the initial attraction has worn off and the husband and wife make conscious decisions to love and serve the other in spite of anything. Show me a young couple holding hands and all kissy and I will show you infatuation. Show me that same couple still together 50 years later and I will show you love.And it doesn't matter whether they married for love or if it was arranged.

  6. drdspervez profile image68
    drdspervezposted 7 years ago

    If a girl or boy love someone they should involve their parent also, like this  girl and boy will have their parent's support also.


  7. dianne143 profile image37
    dianne143posted 7 years ago

    Love marriage. We have the freedom of choice and no one in this world can be a hindrance of our happiness even the parents should not but they must give full support to their children to what makes them happy of their chosen path.

    What if you are in arranged marriage and you do not love the person? would you go for it? for me  I can't accept it. No one is happy unless they love the person who arranged just for them.

    Only selfish parents are the one who done it for their sake. Except those cultures who grew up in that kind of set up that is understandable.

  8. kess profile image61
    kessposted 7 years ago

    Love the one youre with...

    whether it is arranged or love as you thought it was...

    when you truly Love you will find that you are Love itself....

  9. sonia05 profile image59
    sonia05posted 7 years ago

    love marriage for sure...arranged marriage is a risky affair!!!

  10. ThunderKeys profile image67
    ThunderKeysposted 7 years ago

    If its culturally and or religiously appropriate for a given couple, I'd say a loving arranged marriage can be very healthy