How do you get the guy to say I Love you?
If you have been with someone for 12 years. you should know if they love you. I know he loves me. But he never says it.
Some people have an easier time than others saying the big "L" word. So much can factor in, its difficult to say without knowing more about him.
*He could have had a hard childhood (or an overbearing one)
*He might feel awkward showing outward emotion (does he show his affection in public, or is he bashful?)
*He might have loved someone very deeply before and was hurt by them.
*He might have lost a loved one a long time ago and since then he associates love with pain.
*He might not actually love you (harsh but possible).
There are many many reasons - but the easiest way to find out is to simply ask ... he's really the only person who can answer.
If he truly loves you then he should be able to share why its so hard to say so.
Some people don't emote out loud like others do. If you KNOW he loves you and he's proven it through actions for 12 years, hold onto that. There is such a thing as a man of few words (not here on HubPages of course) but if you know from his actions and commitment, maybe let that be enough?
Because it is nice to hear I love you. If he does then why not say it. Is it hard to say? Is it he don't but wants me around?
are u truly love him? leave your ego and say i love you to your ....
if you waste your time u loss him
by Olajide zainab4 years ago
How will a girl know,if a guy have feelings or true luv for her?
by seriousnuts17 months ago
Marry the one you love or the one who loves you?Would you rather marry the person you love but does not love you as much OR marry someone you don't love but is head over heels on you?
by sensual4 years ago
my boyfriend say he cares for me, is this the same as he loves me?
by whispers of faith8 years ago
how do i know he loves me
by Sunshine31316 years ago
How can you tell is someone loves you?Can something be felt within the heart? If so what does that feeling feel like?
by fortunerep8 years ago
What do you think defines a person?
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