How can I find my real man?
where did I meet him and how should I know that he is serious with me?
Are you a single mom? and you want someone to love you for the rest of you life? I know it is YES.
You will feel it he should be sincere, honest and real for his intentions. You have to be cautious there are a lot of people who only wants to have fun and left you nothing but a heart ache.
Get to know him more and better and you must feel it with your heart, human instinct.. Good luck to you.
The meaning of the words “real man” vary from woman to woman.
Basically it comes down to having a man who does what YOU believe he should do!
I tell people the best way to find your “ideal” mate is for you to imagine “being” him or her. In other words you have to try and think like them.
Since you have your own ideas as to what (traits) they will possess this is easier than it might seem at first.
The only way you’re ever going to meet anyone is to be where THEY are!
It’s unrealistic to expect them to “discover you” if you are not in the same circles.
If YOU were HIM….
What type of work would you be interested in?
How old are you?
Do you belong to a gym? If so, what time of day do you work out?
What neighborhood would you live in? What grocery store would you shop?
What type of hobbies would you have?
What organizations would you belong to?
Would you go to church? If so, which type of denomination? Large or small church?
What activities would you enjoy doing on weekends?
Do you play golf? Do you play tennis?
Do you participate in any charity or philanthropic organizations? If so, which ones?
Do you attend sporting events? Concerts? Plays? Movies? If so, which types?
Do you enjoy spending time at the beach?
Have you been married before? Have kids? If so which schools do they go to?
Would you join an online dating service? If so, which ones?
(Remember you are imagining being “HIM”, your “real man”)
The whole idea of this exercise is to learn to "think" the way (your ideal man) would think.
Once you have a detailed profile of the man you want to meet then your next step is to “Be where he is!”
One final question you must answer: If YOU were HIM would you want YOU as his girlfriend/wife?
If the answer is NO then you will need to make some changes in order to attract him.
“Don’t expect to sit next to the moon unless you are a star!”
“When we change, our circumstances change”
You can also read books and attend workshops that deal with this subject. http://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Soulmat … 1600130046
Best of luck!
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