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Where have all the good men gone?

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    incomenewsposted 7 years ago

    "where's the street wise Hercules to fight the greatest odds?"

    " I need a hero... He's gotta be strong... gotta be larger than life"

    LOL I'm listening to good old Bonnie Tyler, love her husky voice!

    Got me thinking though...

    where have all the good men gone indeed? Is there a man out there that doesn't stare in lust at women's cleavages or hasn't slept with more than one woman? Is there a faithful man whose only had his wife since he said I do? Is there somebody I can finally call a real man out there??

    Show yourself please!!!

    Will the real man please stand up!!!

    1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
      Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      They were replaced by women...duh...geeezz where have you been...

      1. PrettyPanther profile image83
        PrettyPantherposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        LOL!

        1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
          Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          wink

    2. DogSiDaed profile image59
      DogSiDaedposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I don't see how those values equate to being a real man, and I would be offended to be branded as not being one for breaking any of these rules smile

    3. Mr Nice profile image79
      Mr Niceposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I have the same question. Where have all the good women gone too?
      Good men and good women are all taken. Good men are gone with good women and good women with good men. Therefore, you have to ask yourself why are you still waiting?? At the end of the day you have to choose from left over.....hahahaha. Good luck

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I think a lot of bad guys are married as well as bad women. Some of the single ones are really cool. and I'm not waiting. I have what I need. and that's not a boring guy, for sure! lol

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        incomenewsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        All the good men are either married gay or prefer bachelorhood

    4. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Define real man

    5. Richieb799 profile image74
      Richieb799posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      If this man is found he should made a saint lol because we know women arent all good either

    6. Diskobolos profile image49
      Diskobolosposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      After the good women. Or more likely it's the other way around.smile

    7. twuxedo profile image57
      twuxedoposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I have not but I am seventeen Nigerian boy.

    8. Colebabie profile image60
      Colebabieposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Well I have an amazing man. And he stares at women's cleavages, has slept with more than one woman, and isn't married yet. Who cares? I like that he stares at women's cleavages. And it doesn't bother me that I'm not the only one he has slept with. He is faithful and is definitely a real man.

      They are out there. Women need to chill out.

  2. Dame Scribe profile image59
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    Hey, love that song too lol mind if I take a seat n listen too? big_smile

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      incomenewsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      be my guest...

  3. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    the man you're looking for sounds very boring.
    if that's a real man, I prefer the fake ones ! lol

    1. PrettyPanther profile image83
      PrettyPantherposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Agree!

      1. TamCor profile image81
        TamCorposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        You two obviously have not ever known a "real" real man, no offense, lol...

        My husband is all of those good things, and I've never had a boring moment with him!!!  He's funny, ornery, and a little naughty at times, and yes, he's also loyal, compassionate, and loving...smile

        Believe me--I was married to the other kind before I met Tom...yuck! big_smile

      2. AdsenseStrategies profile image77
        AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Me too. Not that I'm into men, to be honest...

        1. tantrum profile image60
          tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          lol

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      incomenewsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      You know come to think of it u right.. bring back the pervs then!!

      1. tantrum profile image60
        tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Not the pervs ! lol
        But the naughties, yes !! big_smile

        1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
          Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Naughties get fired for sexual harrassment and then they starve to death, cause no one will hire them...

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            incomenewsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            well u look like a bloke who's a naughtie!!

            1. tantrum profile image60
              tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Maybe he's starving to death ! lol

              1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
                Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                I Have been looking for work for 2 years now...

                http://hubpages.com/hub/The-Seasoning-o … -G-Roberts

                1. tantrum profile image60
                  tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  well, then I hope you find something soon.

                  1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
                    Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    I'm trying writing...

            2. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
              Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              No I found out the hard way that saying NO to a woman means she lies and reports you for sexual harrassment, that you didn't do, and gets her revenge for your rejecting her, by getting you fired. Sexual Harrassment is the modern day witch hunt, a crime requiring only that you be accused, no proof, no reason, nothing just the word of the 'victim'...

  4. Dame Scribe profile image59
    Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago

    It does get tiring, boring n disappointing get rated by TnA I know what you mean hmm

    1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
      Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      That has been the tool women have used for centuries to compete with each other. That women decided to use them as tools for competition and 'put them out there' for all to see is why men see them, and is why men have come to identify women as TnA.

      Women sure don't use morality and ethics to compete for mates... they use sex and sexal attraction. Some are starting to use smarts... but it has been the other for hundeds of years, it will take hundreds of years to undo what has been done... Just my humble opinion...

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Mr. Naughtiness is here! hehe

    1. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      nothing like a Real Man as you !!!! big_smile

  6. earnestshub profile image87
    earnestshubposted 7 years ago

    What I always find amusing about the concept of men being worse than women in any way sexually is the logistics.
    Who do all the promiscuous men have sex with? lol

    1. TamCor profile image81
      TamCorposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      big_smile   big_smile   big_smile

      Good one!!!!

    2. AdsenseStrategies profile image77
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Man, I have been saying this for *years*. Finally, someone else as intelligent as me wink

      1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image96
        mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I have to ask, are they horns growing out of your head in your avatar Adsense Strategies???

        1. AdsenseStrategies profile image77
          AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Horns, yes

          1. mistyhorizon2003 profile image96
            mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            You horny devil you !! wink

    3. tantrum profile image60
      tantrumposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      and all men do, even the ones that look as Mr. Right. I think those are the worse! big_smile

    4. mistyhorizon2003 profile image96
      mistyhorizon2003posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      LOL, the same 1000 or so women who never say no wink wink wink

  7. cheaptrick profile image70
    cheaptrickposted 7 years ago

    I am the Zombie wolf,
    I'm that creature all the lady's been talk-in about,
    they all run for cover when I come charg-in out.
    If I raid your dormatoriam don't try to remain aloof,
    I might snatch you up scream-in all nakid through the window and do it to you up on the roof.
    Tell-in you all the zombie troof,
    here I'm is the zombie wolf.
    (Frank Zappa)

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    Wag The Dogposted 7 years ago

    Women do not see the "real men" out there, because that is not what they look for or chase after.  The funny thing is, should they get a real man, they will change him.

    http://blogs.law.columbia.edu/genderandsexualitylawblog/files/2009/01/rosie1.jpg

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    A real man loves pretty toes.

    1. Diskobolos profile image49
      Diskobolosposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      And how would you know that?smile

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        ralwusposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        because I am real. big_smile

  10. Shadesbreath profile image84
    Shadesbreathposted 7 years ago

    Humans males are biologically hard-wired to respond to "T n A."  The phenomemon is called "sensory modality" and it manifests in numerous ways in humans, and very obviously in other creatures as well - many of whom evolved elaborate sensory modal physiology to accomodate and promote the reproductive process.  Just because humans don't have peacock feathers or bright, swollen labia (female chimpanzees in estrous) to attract mates doesn't make us less a part of how creatures on this planet function.  In essence, you appear to be looking for a male who does not respond to female reproductive signaling as designed by God or evolution, whichever you prefer... aka, you appear to be seeking a gay man. 

    Some religions try to create "good men" by completely covering women up so as to quell this response, but the biological urge for sex is pretty strong, so the visual aptitude for mate selection finds ways to seek visual recognition of sexual signaling, settling for a flash of ankle or wrist (as was so well documented during the sexually repressed Victorian period).

    At best, unless you want a gay man - which would be frustrating I think for a heterosexual woman after a while - you'll have to settle for a man who can contain his response to the display behavior of women around him, one who can hide his notice from you so you won't be jealous.  Either that, or consider working on the jealousy thing and don't hold biology against him.

    1. AdsenseStrategies profile image77
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Or, to condense this whole thing into one sentence, Why would you want a man who doesn't like women?

    2. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
      Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Cudoos, Nicely Stated...

  11. wesleyacarter profile image51
    wesleyacarterposted 7 years ago

    every [straight] man is trying to get some pussy.

    the difference from one man to the next is all about how much they express it.

    a real man is not afraid to say what he wants. it's the bitch-made men that try to pose as these self-righteous, self serving assholes who try to provide women with this sense of being 'above it all' on the one hand. and then turn around and sleep with multitudes of women, or simply go home and dream about sleeping with multitudes of women.

    the point is, every [straight] man is the same when it comes to desires.

    women want dick too, just the same. Some women try to sit on this high horse like they don't, trying to pretend there are all these morals, but that all comes down when the right man comes around - or the wrong man with the right words. And some women just want as many as they can get. To most women, an orgasm is a rare and extremely powerful thing. A real man learns how to give them one. A bitch made man doesn't give them, and tells his friends he does.

    Real men also take care of their business and stick to their word. So if you're dealing with a man who is constantly late, flaky and doesn't deliver on what he says, he's bitch made.

    If you don't want a man to constantly be thinking about having sex with you, hang out at the gay bar. Otherwise, don't hate him for looking at someone else, talk to him about it. You should check out other men too, it's limiting to be thinking about only one person all the time. This helps the feelings at least get out, and a real man will respond appropriately and be even more attracted to you. Don't hate him for looking at your tits, simply entice him. A real man will respond appropriately.

    As adsense said, it's biology. Trying to hold it back is futile and turns human beings into robots. And not the efficient kind.

    1. PrettyPanther profile image83
      PrettyPantherposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      This is the truth, plain and simple.

    2. Diskobolos profile image49
      Diskobolosposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I agree, any healthy man will have desire to fuck a lot of women. I would say it is the self-discipline and respect and love that he feels for a woman that will stop him from fucking other women. However, saying that he is not sexually attracted to other women is an utter lie.

      1. Diskobolos profile image49
        Diskobolosposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Of course, one more reasons why, both men and women, sometimes don't do it is fear of consequences.

  12. RecoverToday profile image85
    RecoverTodayposted 7 years ago

    Heed the warnings of internet predators....don't always believe everything you hear.

  13. kmackey32 profile image60
    kmackey32posted 7 years ago

    let me know when you find out

  14. K Partin profile image61
    K Partinposted 7 years ago

    right here lol

  15. K Partin profile image61
    K Partinposted 7 years ago

    My wife got the last one! lol

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      lol lol lol lol

  16. wychic profile image91
    wychicposted 7 years ago

    Well, by that definition of a real man, that was my ex...he was my first sexual partner, and according to him I was his first as well, and for all five years we were married he never stepped out of line until the end, at which point I don't know if he acted on his flirtations before I left or directly after. That said, there are plenty of other facets of his character and conduct that disqualified him from what I would consider a real man.

    My current SO, soon to be husband, has been married twice before and has had several girlfriends in his life. I'm far from the first woman in his life, but what's important to me is he's always only had one at a time. In pretty much all other facets of his life he has also behaved in a way I consider consistent with a real man, and he does me the honor of looking my way whenever he needs a dose of TnA wink.

    Women aren't so different, we all have our triggers, they just seem to be a little more varied on average than the male triggers. Personally, I love to see a man with big hands...you know, it's true what they say about them...


    ...they really DO wear big gloves!

  17. Manly Man profile image60
    Manly Manposted 7 years ago

    How to spot a rich, manly man.
    http://kd4dcy.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/richguy1.jpg

    1. Mikel G Roberts profile image79
      Mikel G Robertsposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      ...or a prostitute... wink

  18. kmackey32 profile image60
    kmackey32posted 7 years ago

    lol

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    Denno66posted 7 years ago

    Baaaaaa!

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    lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago

    There here in HubPages big_smile

 
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