A guy is in love with you but you can't give the same back....

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  1. selene383 profile image58
    selene383posted 7 years ago

    A guy is in love with you but you can't give the same back....

    He loves me, I cant return the love, I told him and he's in denial. What do I do to get him to realize that I don't like him like that?

  2. prettydarkhorse profile image61
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    I will not encourage him to pursue me and I will tell him the truth. I don't want him to be hurt pretending I also love him.

  3. Alhamora profile image64
    Alhamoraposted 7 years ago

    Don't worry. Eventually he will understand or you will have a change of heart. would like to know what happens. Keep us informed. smile

  4. piscitelli2 profile image60
    piscitelli2posted 7 years ago

    Stop talking to him and he will eventually get the picture.

  5. Taleb80 profile image82
    Taleb80posted 7 years ago

    Catch two glass bottles & hit them together to crush them, then tell him this is our life together like I see.

  6. Cre'lynn profile image58
    Cre'lynnposted 7 years ago

    you cant. you just have to wait until he relizes ur not kidding.

  7. theoctopusjar profile image72
    theoctopusjarposted 7 years ago

    If you've told him, then you've done the completely right thing. It is now his problem if he can't accept it. :] Try not to worry about it anymore, as he'll realize he's wrong sooner or later.

  8. lburmaster profile image83
    lburmasterposted 7 years ago

    Telling the truth is the best you can do. Your reaction is that you do care for him, even if you do not love him. The relationship cannot succeed, it will dissipate to a certain point. Try keeping him as a friend if you wish. Though this act would only harm you right now since you care for him enough to help his wounded self. If you cannot watch him in self misery, cut him out of your life. It sounds cruel but it is the best way to continue on without stress. You might regret the decision later though. Attempt to keep him as a friend. The future rests on his reaction.

  9. Dovay Lee profile image38
    Dovay Leeposted 7 years ago

    Tell him directly and stay away from him for this can make him start a new feeling.

  10. Yilia profile image59
    Yiliaposted 7 years ago

    I would reject him tacful with very direct response. I don't think if I do not into him and pretending love or mercy to him is wise choice. Really mercy is let him know the truth clearly. He will recovery soon if I keep distance in the future. One day, he found his real true love, he will find out that what a nice thing that I reject him directly!

  11. theseus profile image78
    theseusposted 7 years ago

    When you find someone in love with you but you don't love him , gently refuse the love you cannot return.

    If he's still in denial, leave it at that. He'll get over the hurt in time. But it's not your problem anymore. What is important is you did not take advantange of his feelings.

  12. maria.rose profile image38
    maria.roseposted 7 years ago

    Free your mind from worries. Live simple. Give more. Expect less.and it is best thing that you told him ..................


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